My husband has recently began communicating with an ex-girl friend/friend from over 10 years ago. I trust my hubby but I don't trust her. She is married, but texted my husband while she was on vacation (with her husband)...do you think that's weird?
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Cyndi Ninja
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It is just a “little thing”, but yes I do find that to be troublesome. If it bothers you, tell him so and ask him to stop.
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When she was dating my husband years ago, she was cheating in her boyfriend (now husband) with him. I just don't get a good vibe from her. I know he would stop if I asked him to, but I just want to make sure I'm not over-reacting.
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I wouldn't trust him either. Why the need to talk with an ex after 10 years? He is as much at fault as she is and I don't think it's weird I think it's wrong.
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No offense but I think its kind of weird your not worried about your husband. I trust mine to but when it comes to someone they use to sleep with or date that maybe they want to see if they missed something along the way, I don't trust ANYONE that much. Don't u watch Oprah, or haven't you heard about how many people have left their spouses for rekindling that long lost love affair they had with a high school sweetheart that they've come in contact with on classmates.com or myspace? Most woman don't respond unless they are provoked & he like her is married with a spouse too so you might want to think about that. BTW, who contacted who first? Whose idea was it to rekindle this friendship??
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Yea that's kind of strange. I would talk to him about it. It's better to get everything out in the open ASAP.
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If your hubby is replying to text messages, be concerned I would if I was in your position.
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Sounds liek SHE is up to no good! I hate that when you feel like you can trust your man but have to worry about other women! It goes that way with me too! Good luck!
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I had the same problem with my husband. All of a sudden some chick from his past paid a PI to track him down. My husband said to not worry as she is happily married. I still had a problem with it so they communicated behind my back. He was pissed when I went snooping and figured it all out. He says why can't he have friends. Well I wonder! She was just too persistent! About 6 months ago my hubby finally confined that she was asking him for advice in her sex life. Like it's any of his business! I finally put my foot down and said if he snuck around talking to her I will file for divorce. I hope he is smarter and loves me, to not betray me again. But I did lose some respect and trust for him that I'm not sure will ever come back. And that is sad to say the least.
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I totally agree, it should bother you. The best temptation is a removed one. I trusted my exwife for 10 years and that led to six other guys. Now granted we have been seperated for some,married for others, divorced for one, I think. I have a long story.... But no matter who you are co workers and friends of the opposite sex are the worst. When you and your spouse are having problems even if they don't mean to the grass starts looking better on the other side. And if they don't have a strong will they graze like a freakin cow.........
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Yes, I think that's weird. If your marriage means anything to him, he'll stop this before it gets started.
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Do you know what the text said? Is she maybe seeking forgiveness or closure over guilt she feels about how they broke up? If you trust your husband the way you say you do, then tell him it makes you uncomfortable for him to be keeping in touch with a past girlfriend and ask him to stop. If you talk it over with him in a non-threatening way, he should do what you ask.
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She was probably asking for travel tips. Nothing to worry about.
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