ANSWERS: 6
  • Quit fooling yourself and wasting the guy(3month man) time. Tell him you still have feelings for some other guy (in a nice way). That you don't want to waste his time and apologize. Then again I am a guy and I would rather have a girl say that instead of lead me on and dump me later. When she knew for the longest time. That would just get me mad because I could have been spending time and effort with someone else. - Sorry if that sounds blunt and harsh.
  • Is your current bf someone you think you might be able to love if your heart were free from your ex? If so, I'd tell him that you have unresolved issues in a former relationship that you need to address before you can pursue anything further with him. If he really likes you, he'll understand and give you the time you need to figure it out. Either way, you need to resolve the feelings you have for your ex or you're never going to be open to a relationship with anyone else.
  • Always go to the one you you love. Staying with a man who don't love is akin to deceit. If the man you love is not worthy of your love then you should drop both men.
  • It's amazing that you ask this Q. Do you want to go back to a man who is going to hurt you again? And, you should not be leading on the other man, the one who loves you, if you know you can never love him. You don't belong with either one. Be honest--
  • Where the mind seems weak the heart beats strong so follow it and may your choice be fruitful.
  • sounds like you've had some sound advice here - and think- the reason the "old flame" has come back may be because he heard you'd got someone else... So he gets you back then dumps you again - then what? No, I think you need to be true to yourself and give yourself time to establish some self-respect, because it sounds as thought you've been been badly undermined. All the best to you. x

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