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i have a step daughter as well.she is younger though which makes me telling her anything easy. my advice would be to discuss this with your boyfriend.let him know your feelings and how it negatively affects your children. ask him to take a little charge in his daughters behavior.she may like her freedom but all children like routine, they just dont know it.introduce one thing at at time. for ex: one visit insist to her to eat dinner with the family and if she dont want to eat still sit at the table til everyone is finish. let her know that its important to her father as he thinks it would be special in sharing this moment with her.sounds like dad needs to step up though
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Yes, her dad has to start providing some leadership to his daughter. It shouldn't be left up to stepmum to do all the disciplining.
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Tell dad to get his ass in gear. This girl needs to know what the rules of your house are. If he wants to do what's best for his daughter he'll immediately have a talk with her and explain that when she's in this house she abides by this house's rules. That simple.
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