ANSWERS: 7
  • I would ignore him. He will realize that his life doesn't feel the same and he'll come back!
  • Hang around here for a little bit. It could make you feel better. If he's made his position clear, you can't dwell. You have to move on. That's what people tell me and I should take that advice.
  • Well, although it sounds like there is more to this than you have included in the question, I would suggest that you let him know that you are willing to back off a bit in the relationship and go back to how you were before you got 'too close'; just carry on as you did a few months into the relationship, without looking too far into the future and without doing too many 'domestic' things. Personally, I think that his attention has already wandered to a new girl, but that is just my cynical nature coming out. Why would he dump you if he still loved you? Why wouldn't he come up with a compromise solution?
  • You can go along with him, and in the meantime live your life to the fullest. We all need to respect each others choices to fully relate. We also don't have to like it, just accept it. We have to grow, die, deteriorate or stagnate. It is your choice.
  • Of course, I don't know for sure, but if someone said that to me I would think he was making excuses for wanting to end the relationship. He still loves you means he wants to keep you on a string just in case other things don't work out, he gets things out of his system or he changes his mind. If it were me I would tell him to kiss my a$$ and then wouldn't waste another thought on him. But that's just me, if you "dump" me I am going to stay "dumped" there is no going back.
  • who told you he loves you?in fact,dumping you without trying to compromise means alot!if he really loves you...,he wont want to lose what he has. so its very obvious he has been playing with you,meanwhile his thoughts are else where
  • wow you guys all suck, and don't beleive i true love.....so you guys can all bite me and i'll continue hoping

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