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Let me give you a guy's point of view. Some times a girl is so pretty and nice etc...That she is to intimidating to ask out. What you should do is find a guy you really like and you make the move first. Trust me he will be flattered and appreciate the gesture. Chasing girls is so tiring. It is nice to be chased every so often. A secret is that it boosts a guy's ego and makes him feel good when he is chased some times a little bit.
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amen-most guys won't go for the 9's or 10's.
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I am in the exact same position as you. Everyone tells me i'm really pretty and that I will make some guy very happy. The only problem is I can't find that guy. I'm tired of getting hurt too.
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Maybe because you are coming off as desperate. The three times in my life that I met someone and started a rel;ationship was when I was not actively looking. When you are actively looking for someone sometimes you can come off and desperate and needy without meaning to. That is a big turn off for alot of guys. Try to relax and not focus on finding a guy so much. I promise if you sit back and relax instead of getting all hyped up over not having a guy when you least expect it someone will walk right into your life when you least expect it.
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Go to a day spa and treat yourself to a scalp or foot massage. Do something nice for someone who is not expecting it. Short answer, relax. Take your mind off of boys. Do something that will make you a bigger, better person, and when the moment is right, they will come. Like money or nice things, boys don't make you happy, by the way. You have to be happy, you have to be yourself. Then the boys come and you make them happy. (In small ways.) Build them up, stand behind them, make them better.
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i'm in the same boat as you. its tough finding somebody but be independant and dont worry your guy will come.
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Take some time to love yourself (like Jed suggested)! When women are independent, they are more attractive to men. That is, they won't worry you'll be clingy, etc. You need to put it out of your mind and think of you first! Also, if you are worried about getting hurt, you sound like you need some time before going on a ton of dates. They will come to you, I assure you!
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Have you tried doing the approaching? Why should the guy have to do all the work?
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Pretty might get you superficial boyfriends, what gets you a long term relationship is more then looks. Looks are the first attraction, the second is if you conform to the way the guy sees a girl, every guy sees hes perfect girl different in some way.
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