Why does an ex husband absolutely refuse to have any relationship with the ex wife after he's gotten the divorce?
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Anonymous
ANSWERS: 8
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I have no idea about how and what went on in the marriage, but I can understand not wanting contact with someone. It could have been a very toxic relationship. He could be so embarassed at his "failure" (he may see it that way). He may not want to talk to the ex wife. There are many reasons I could see an ex husband or an ex wife not wanting to have contact with an ex spouse.
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I guess the relationship is truely over for him. Unless you have children together, that's probably a good thing for you.
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Because he wants to. It's no longer the realm of the ex to have any say in this.
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He severed the relationship and decided to move on with his life. That is the point of divorce.
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I think people should just move on, unless there are children involved.
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Why live with a painful memory? Time to move on to greener pastures.
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It depends on how acrimonious the separation was. In my parents case, my father got another woman pregnant before their divorce went through. He stole money from my mother too. As a child, I still remember the silence when he came to pick me up. Only after he decided he had made a mistake to marry his second wife did he start talking to my mother. When he married his third wife, he stopped talking to my mother again and this remained the case after he divorced his third wife. Now the animosity, 43 years after their divorce, is worse than ever!! What can one do? That's life.
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Why would he want to?
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