My BF of 2 weeks just sobbingly confessed that he cheated on me with my friend last night. I asked him why and he replied "It just happened." He still wants to be with me. Im considering it, but how can I trust that he won't let this "just happen" again?
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2 weeks? dump him.
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Maybe you should wait until you can answer that question before you consider anything!
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Find another BF who at least won't be going behind you back with your friend and you might want to also consider ditching that friend of your because with friends like that you don't need any enemies! If your soon-to-be-ex ask you why you're dropping him? Tell him... it just happened!
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Two weeks, cheating, "just happened". I am guessing that you are both around 16. I would say "not boyfriend". I would lean toward the walk away. There is nothing here to indicate a long term relationship.
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My vote is to throw this one back. Sorry.
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Two weeks is not a lot of time invested. Let this one go, there are more fish in the sea and I am sure you can find one that won't bed your friend when your back is turned.
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im in the boyfriends position right now...so i neeed to know what to say to my girlfriend when she asks me why i did it...i need to tell her but i havent yet
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at least he told you. Were you guys exclusive? If so, then i am would not give another chance... But if you are just casual dating , people need to know their expectations.
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Geez just 2 weeks and he does this to you? Get out now and don't look back. He has zero respect for you and don't you deserve respect?....you bet you do!!!!
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drop them both,neither of them are your friends.
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time to get a new one. it won't stop.
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You're considering staying with him? You're going to have to watch his every move. It just happened and it'll just happen again and again. It would be easier to just get him neutered.
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If he had love for you, "Just Happened" would have "Never happened"....DNT BELIEVE
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2 weeks only he sleeps with one of your friends. Imagine 2 months, 2 years. Girl, you should throw him into the recycle bin to see anything else good can come out from him.
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Girl you need to be slapping the f@$! out of him. What the hell is wrong with him. Have you been giving him some? Even if you havn't given him any, he can't be faithful for two weeks and to top it off sex your friend down. Whoever she is she is not your friend. A friend would have slapped him for you when he made the attempt...or did she make the first move? My x-friend slept with one of my x-boyfriends...it's scandolous stuff. Find you a new friend and a new boyfriend...they should be lucky to have you in their lives!
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There are 2 ways to look at this: you have only been together 2 weeks so he shouldn't have been so careless because it's easier for you to let him go - but also, you have only been together 2 weeks so the relationship can't be that serious yet & therefore you don't mean as much as you would in 2 years for example. In his defence, he confessed pretty much straight away & he sounds young so he probably just got carried away. I would give him one chance, but one chance only & he better treat you like a princess from now on. Make sure you make it clear that you will not be walked over though. Also, make sure you keep emotionally distant for a while until you can trust him again as there is a possibility he could cheat again & you don't want to get hurt. As for your friend - she should have known better & I wouldn't consider her a friend any more.
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Sobbingly?! Ha! That makes me laugh. Dump the weeny.
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I agree with pretty much everyone who answered already your "friend" is horrible I would never forgive one of my friends if they did that...as for him your probably going to be untrusting about him excpecially around your friends and thats no fun....you should kick them both to the curb.
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Come on youv got to draw the line there,i wouldnt even consider having him back,and as for your friend??What friend. They have both betrayed you get some one whos more worthy of you,and be careful of your choice of friends
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he cannot just say "it just happend" !? there obviously has to be more then that to it, try talking to your friend about it and see if there was more to the story.. i'd say find out more about what happend and what the situation was before you consider getting back together with him
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Its only been two weeks?? Get out while you can, you dont deserve someone to do you that way SO early in a relationship.. What makes you think he wont do it again?? I think the best thing is to leave it while its early so u wont get hurt. Hope this helps :)
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