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by Anonymous on November 19th, 2007

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My BF of 2 weeks just sobbingly confessed that he cheated on me with my friend last night. I asked him why and he replied "It just happened." He still wants to be with me. Im considering it, but how can I trust that he won't let this "just happen" again?

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  • by Babycakes on November 19th, 2007

    Babycakes

    Geez just 2 weeks and he does this to you? Get out now and don't look back. He has zero respect for you and don't you deserve respect?....you bet you do!!!!

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  • by Meow Meow 1BadMutha TBMF on November 19th, 2007

    Meow Meow 1BadMutha TBMF

    My vote is to throw this one back. Sorry.

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  • by Erica on November 21st, 2007

    Erica

    Girl you need to be slapping the f@$! out of him. What the hell is wrong with him. Have you been giving him some? Even if you havn't given him any, he can't be faithful for two weeks and to top it off sex your friend down. Whoever she is she is not your friend. A friend would have slapped him for you when he made the attempt...or did she make the first move?
    My x-friend slept with one of my x-boyfriends...it's scandolous stuff. Find you a new friend and a new boyfriend...they should be lucky to have you in their lives!

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  • by hhe_ly on November 21st, 2007

    hhe_ly

    2 weeks only he sleeps with one of your friends. Imagine 2 months, 2 years. Girl, you should throw him into the recycle bin to see anything else good can come out from him.

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  • by bhuvana on November 21st, 2007

    bhuvana

    If he had love for you, "Just Happened" would have "Never happened"....DNT BELIEVE

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  • by C-C. on November 19th, 2007

    C-C.

    You're considering staying with him? You're going to have to watch his every move. It just happened and it'll just happen again and again. It would be easier to just get him neutered.

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  • by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on November 19th, 2007

    Sheriff Raff -Answerhag

    Two weeks is not a lot of time invested. Let this one go, there are more fish in the sea and I am sure you can find one that won't bed your friend when your back is turned.

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  • by WeeWillyWinky on November 19th, 2007

    WeeWillyWinky

    2 weeks? dump him.

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  • by Disko Fari on January 31st, 2008

    Disko Fari

    he cannot just say "it just happend" !? there obviously has to be more then that to it, try talking to your friend about it and see if there was more to the story.. i'd say find out more about what happend and what the situation was before you consider getting back together with him

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  • by Anonymous on November 21st, 2007

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    There are 2 ways to look at this: you have only been together 2 weeks so he shouldn't have been so careless because it's easier for you to let him go - but also, you have only been together 2 weeks so the relationship can't be that serious yet & therefore you don't mean as much as you would in 2 years for example. In his defence, he confessed pretty much straight away & he sounds young so he probably just got carried away. I would give him one chance, but one chance only & he better treat you like a princess from now on. Make sure you make it clear that you will not be walked over though. Also, make sure you keep emotionally distant for a while until you can trust him again as there is a possibility he could cheat again & you don't want to get hurt. As for your friend - she should have known better & I wouldn't consider her a friend any more.

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  • by Spunts.answered 67 questions in 1 hour. on November 19th, 2007

    Spunts.answered 67 questions in 1 hour.

    drop them both,neither of them are your friends.

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  • by Nelson - Jetpacking from bed on November 19th, 2007

    Nelson - Jetpacking from bed

    Two weeks, cheating, "just happened". I am guessing that you are both around 16. I would say "not boyfriend". I would lean toward the walk away.


    There is nothing here to indicate a long term relationship.

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  • by Pointeman1 on November 19th, 2007

    Pointeman1

    Find another BF who at least won't be going behind you back with your friend and you might want to also consider ditching that friend of your because with friends like that you don't need any enemies!

    If your soon-to-be-ex ask you why you're dropping him? Tell him... it just happened!

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  • by Midnighttoker on November 19th, 2007

    Midnighttoker

    time to get a new one. it won't stop.

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  • by HURIKN on November 19th, 2007

    HURIKN

    at least he told you. Were you guys exclusive? If so, then i am would not give another chance... But if you are just casual dating , people need to know their expectations.

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  • by Will Smith on November 19th, 2007

    Will Smith

    im in the boyfriends position right now...so i neeed to know what to say to my girlfriend when she asks me why i did it...i need to tell her but i havent yet

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  • by Dexpaxas on November 21st, 2007

    Dexpaxas

    Sobbingly?! Ha! That makes me laugh. Dump the weeny.

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  • by bluegirl1417 on November 21st, 2007

    bluegirl1417

    I agree with pretty much everyone who answered already your "friend" is horrible I would never forgive one of my friends if they did that...as for him your probably going to be untrusting about him excpecially around your friends and thats no fun....you should kick them both to the curb.

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  • by Itslo on March 1st, 2008

    Itslo

    Its only been two weeks??
    Get out while you can, you dont deserve someone to do you that way SO early in a relationship.. What makes you think he wont do it again??
    I think the best thing is to leave it while its early so u wont get hurt.
    Hope this helps
    :)

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  • by pagan-babe on November 21st, 2007

    pagan-babe

    Come on youv got to draw the line there,i wouldnt even consider having him back,and as for your friend??What friend.

    They have both betrayed you get some one whos more worthy of you,and be careful of your choice of friends

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  • by scruffy on November 19th, 2007

    scruffy

    Maybe you should wait until you can answer that question before you consider anything!

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