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  • Don't cheat on her or disrespect her in any way infront of your friends...actually ever for that matter. :D
  • Never act jealous!!
  • Don't get drunk and call her.
  • Don't lie to her; if you have any problems, talk them out with her, and don't be possessive.
  • R-E-S-P-E-C-T :)
  • The way your question is phrased, it sounds like you'll do just fine. Just be good to her.
  • Don't cheat ever!
  • Don't lie. No matter what it is. Don't act different when your friends are around. Don't point out her bad points. I had a boyfriend who did that. Hated it. :/
  • If sex is your motivator (which it often is with young men), put it on a back burner. Care about her and develop the relationship. Be honest and treat her like she should be treated. Respect her and you will be fine.
  • Keep the communication flowing.
  • call her!! show her u care about her
  • Just earn her trust and don't make sex your main motivation for your relationship. Make it clear that she's important to you, but do not let her run your life, and most of all talk to her at least twice a day. Even if its just you half listening, this will make her feel that you care about her opinions.
  • Go slow, very slow, be honest, respect her views, and don't start another relationship unless you finish with this one. Don't always think of yourself first. Put her needs and wants above yours.
  • now and days the first relationship at that age doesnt last forever but have fun and live life but if you think shes the one go for it. but be careful don,t get your heart broken . the key words in a relationship r trust /respect/commucation for towards each other but thats just my opinion.peaceout
  • Be a gentleman: Insist on using your condoms, and ask first.
  • Just the fact that you're worried about it is really great. Just treat her with respect and do little things to show her that you really like her. Don't get too worried about screwing up though, just be yourself and relax and things should run fairly smoothly.
  • Be yourself but don't just think of yourself,that's always worked for me. Good luck.
  • My first relationship ended because of my jealousy towards other guys... Know that spice girls song "If you wanna be my lover, you've gotta get with my friends"... I'm sure you do... and I'm sure it's one of the reasons why you're now in a relationship with her... But it's not enough... you need to continue to be nice to EVERYONE you meet... don't invest all of your love on this one girl... love EVERYONE... For instance if she starts talking to a male... your natural instinct is going to be "I don't like the way you're acting towards him, I wish you would stop"... that is definitely the wrong thing to do... The only way to overcome this is to befriend the other male... and genuinely! don't just pretend to like them... give them a chance! It's hard to do... but it's definitely worth it. Basically if you try to put a cage around your girlfriend she's going to run for the hills... it's human nature... when we feel trapped we try to escape... so if you try to keep her all to yourself... you're going to lose her. Love EVERYONE in your life... drop your ego... be a compassionate, loyal, honest caring person... Oh and by the way, CONGRATULATIONS! ;)
  • In all respects treat her as you would wish her to treat you.
  • ok make sure you get your priorities right (she won't just want sex) and make sure you always act the same as normal around everybody. don't lie, don't cheat. don't just use and abuse her, but don't let her walk all over you either. But most of all, just be yourself. If she doesn't like that, then she's not for you.
  • I can't do proper relationships for longer than 2 months, so heres what I do within the two months when it's working: Call her most nights, but she'll want some space, so don't suffocate her, maybe a lil text that doesnt need a reply sometimes, such as 'hope you're smiling, and if not, heres a joke' and tell a REALLY CRAP joke. I'm your age, and known by most people at my school as a manwhore, but im also a genuinely nice guy, but slightly addicted to flirting/getting with girls, so some girls consider me a wanker. Basically, treat her as u can imagine a gentleman treating his woman. Holding doors etc, introducing her to your parents etc as 'Rachel, my girlfriend who I told you about' and help her feel good about herself, especially if you know she's insecure about something (i can't stand it when girls are insecure, so I always try to compliment them on something I know they don't like about themselves) Don't lie. I have three key morals: 1. (THE MOST IMPORTANT) Never hit a woman. If she hits you, restrain her, but never hit her. It's a problem when I feel this strongly, as I've got myself into some tricky spots, but it's always worth it. 2. Never cheat on her. Women deserve more respect than I do, and I know that, so I give it to them. 3. ALWAYS defend her from abuse from anyone. If it gets physical, so be it, go in all guns blazing, passion in your heart and fire in your eyes. If you get your arse handed to you, fuck it, your ego will heal, your bruises and cuts will heal, and your relationship will be stronger.
  • treat her with respect let her talk value her opinions take her to the zoo don't force yourself on her physically when she's not interested explore life together don't be scared to share your thoughts with her and, if it ever gets to the point, keep her fucked happy
  • remember jsut because she is your girlfriend it doesnt mean she is your property.
  • NO GLOVE NO LOVE!!!!!
  • don't be like every other guy in the world honestly please. treat her with respect. listen to her when she talks. make sure that u have her opinion count for something. when she says she wants to do something do it with her. DON'T GET HER PREGNANT! all in all treat her like a princess, call her before u go to bed, when u wake up, if u both have cell phones send her cute text messages basically put her on a pedistal and make her ur number one priority .... thats if u really like her think u could love her one day and are lookin for a real relationship not just one u'll have for a month...n also don't ever cheat on her with her bestfriend...or ne one for that matter.
  • girls are a huge waste of time, i prefer to grab a nice hunk of manlove and role around all night, than of course preform a f*ck'n'chuck. my number is 873- 7345
  • take ur time things will fall in place. just relax and treat her better than you treat anyone in the world, show her that she means something to you, give her small gifts once in awhile just like small stuff if you remember that she like a certain flower just on a random day get her those flowers, she will like it trust me.
  • When you're talking make it about her. Ask her questions about everything she likes, dislikes, vacations, family, dreams, fears,etc. Also make a point to spend time with her and her best friends. If her friends like you they will be more likely to give her the two thumbs up! My husband and I started dating when I was 15 and we are still together 14 years later so you never know> Good luck!
  • dont try to kiss her to fast dont try to get in bed with her to fast try to have her make the first move.
  • Listen to her, talk to her, and show her respect
  • You've got a lot of good advice here. Internalize all of it and make it your own, then forget it. Be yourself. Enjoy HER (and I don't mean ONLY sexually). To repeat an answer I recently gave: Love her every day in every way you can think of. Hold her when she needs held, reassure her every time she worries, kiss away her tears, and keep telling her how much she means to you. Write her a poem or song. If you sing, sing to her (gonna want to find some good love songs!) Enjoy. Good luck. ;-)
  • If she is a nice girl and she treats you well, remember to listen to her problems and not to spoil her to much. Be kind and generous but don't go overboard because that is hard to maintain. Tell her how pretty she is and that her clothes are nice.
  • Take it so. If it is meant to be then why rush things right? Take it slow, be open and honest with on another.
  • I started my first serious relationship when i was 14, its lasted for 4 years and still going stong, im 18 now. so i know a little bit- dont fight about things that really dont matter, u will regret it later, trust me. and if something is bothering her-listen, it makes a big difference. and dont spend to much time thinking about the future because you might miss the presant. hope i helped!
  • you're too young to have a serious relationship... go play in the pool.
  • dont ever argue about stupid stuff, dont complain very much at all, be nice! always be nice...nomatter what. Listen alot and deal with lots of talking on her side. =] If she complains, listen and try to understand her. Just no being mean or yelling.
  • girls hate guys who open up and then close up and to make her comfortable you need to be so she can and listen when she talkes and show her you know how to handel your self at a party make other guys and girls jeules she will love if you can do that
  • you should recognize that you are only 16 and that the relationship will be just one of many on your path to adulthood./
  • this coming from me a girl thats in my teenage years just really care for her and really respect her and dont look or check out any girls cause we hate that and always be honest and try to be with her as much as possblie
  • be nice to her parents, dont lie to her , use your manners , dont buy her expensive gifts (wild flowers are much nicer), and comliment her every once in a while , dont yell unless the house is on fire.
  • Don't fall in love with her best friend.
  • say what you mean and mean what you say.
  • Be clear with her about what you want to say (especially important stuff) and don't beat around the bush. Be direct!
  • sounds like your doing a great job, don't yell, call names, or cheat. make sure you tell her how you feel, girls love that, just be good to her and you'll do fine.
  • Just be yourself.
  • 1. Don't have a sexual relationship... yet. You are way too young right now and I'm sure you wanna finish high school, college, and be successful in life without anything really interfering in it. 2. Be honest and don't cheat. Please, I'm sure you fell in love with this girl when you got to know her good right? So, I'm sure you care about her and don't want to hurt her. So don't be dishonest and lie. 3. Go slow. Believe me, you don't know yet how some people are in a relationship. Some people stay the same but some change for the worse so just be cautious and don't rush to do everything because you hear or get told that that's the way it's supposed to be done. Do everything at you own pace and when you're most comfortable. I wish you luck!!!
  • Treat her how you would like to be treated :)
  • be yourself, be nice to her, dont pressure her and try to have lots of fun :] good luck x
  • Being a good boyfriend is really not difficult! Just make sure you communicate with your girlfriend, be honest with her, show her respect and make her feel valued. Ask her opinion on things, pay her compliments and be able to show her affection without trying to have sex with her all the time. Good luck, though I don't think you will need it, you seem nice enough!
  • Seems like you got really cool advise so far ... hope its been helping. Girls like a combination of sweet (puppy/ caring/adorable) and strong (you know the man who would protect her life and heart etc) But I agree - Just be yourself and don't get in too deep ...cos you're still young.
  • dont cheat and if u start calling her everyday dont stop cuz she will think ur cheating on her
  • be...honest,nice and don't fuck it up by critizing her..especially on how she looks....
  • Just be honest. Girls have such respect for that but if you really like this girl, I'm sure you will do fine =)
  • Go slowly and rush nothing. Make sure she is comfortable with your family and you with hers....very important if the relationship is to last longer than a month! Talk about everything under the sun....laugh a lot....never break a promise.....don't sulk.....never let her walk home alone.
  • dont lie to her because eventually they will all catch up to you and they you will be fucked. also dont rush into sex w/o first establishing a strong emotional bond or else the relationship will just be all about sex and thats no good
  • Don't just want to 'get into her pants'. Make sure you like her and do whatever with her.
  • "relationship" you've got to be kidding, you're 16 talk about having a relationship some time after your 30
  • Think before you speak. ;) Don't be an ass. Don't let her walk all over you... stand up for yourself. A girl respects a man who says no once in a while. Be a gentleman. Don't look at her tits ALL THE TIME, but don't ignore them either. ;) Basically, treat her a little bit like the kid sister you adore. Tease her gently from time to time. Girls like to be teased in a good-natured way. Listen when she talks to you. If you're reading a book or something, when she comes in, put the book down and stand up to greet her with a hug or kiss or whatever... it makes her feel great. Good luck!
  • the fact that you are not wanting to screw it up means you are already on the right path to making it work. just respect her, listen to her, show her she is important. Dont call her names, talk about yourself constantly, and choose your friends over her basically. :-)
  • Hear... Dont just listen, hear what she has to say. Dont be afraid to ask questions.
  • Be nice to her,Respect her values,care her feelings!Repeat these steps for long term and probably you will survive in your current relationship!
  • Don't be one of those pushy boyfriends who thinks cus there the guy they get to choose what happens and you'll do fine, treat her the way you wanna be treated
  • you should defenetly get her chocolate, all girls like that ! DON'T try to ask her to kiss you on your 1st date. Women like it when you ask about them!
  • Don't try to get in her pants - Her Dad will kill you and feed your body parts to Old Man Oleson's hogs. (Sorry, I was just trying to help her Dad out, there) Seriously, though: Just relax and have fun. Be respectful, and otherwise be yourself. It is an exciting time for you, whether it works out or not - so just enjoy it. Don't ruin your time by worrying about whether or not you will screw it up.
  • Don't dwell on screwing it up. If you dwell on what may go wrong you may miss an important part of your relationship. Also, don't forget her birthday, or things of that nature.
  • be your self, be honest, ask her what her fave color is, and tell her she is beautiful. Tell her something that is unique about you. Dont ignore her when youre around your friends. Buy her flowers. Write her a letter. Dont ask her her weight. Tell her she smells good. Ask her what she thinks and what you can do to make things works. Communication is essential.
  • Most of all, just be yourself. Be respectful and trustworthy and don't push her or yourself to fast. Take care not to hurt each others feelings. Always be willing to talk things through. Be good friends with her first, and her boyfriend second. Listen to her, and don't forget to tell her what you feel and what you need. When in doubt, don't do anything you would not want to tell your parents or her parents about. You first relationship can be a wonderful thing. Enjoy it to the max!
  • Flowers, flowers, flowers. and teddy bears, and candy. And open her doors. If it's muddy, carry her on your back. If she says her feet hurt, give her a foot massage. If she says she doesn't care where you go eat, make a decision, don't go back and forth. Women want a man to be decisive, whether they admit it or not. Treat her like a princess, and make sure she knows it.
  • Take it slow, If you both get attached too fast, you will both end up hurt. Im a teenage guy too man, so i know how it is. Its hard as hell, but get to know each other, and dont always be the one looking for her attention, let her come to you.
  • Don't cheat for any reason, in any state of mind, no matter what's going on. Don't even think about cheating.
  • BE JUST RANDOMLY NICE, write a poem compliment her buy her flowers every now and then
  • be nice, don't make her just call you, don't ignore her a any point in time she will get mad at you, don't let her forget that you want her not some other chick, take things slow.
  • be sweet dont be afraid to beyourself..BUT not tomuch like dont do gross things infront of her..dont be afraid to tell her how you feel..and NEVER hurt her
  • Don't put yourself in any situation where you might be tempted to cheat.
  • Treat her with respect and always put her needs and wants above your own, and you won't go far wrong.
  • tell her the truth be nice complement her dont cheat dont look at other girls when your with her always listen and talk less be polite dont burp/fart around her. total turn off with most girls! haha hope i helped
  • ALWAYS ALWAYS follow corinthians 13. It'll be VERY hard at some points, because you will be envious, or remember past conflicts. Follow it scrupiously. Hope she feels the same about you, hope she understands that too, and make sure to work out any disagreements asap but when you're CALM and logical. It's not always possible to have the same view, so learn to accept differences or compromise if you cannot.
  • tell her lies be a jack-ass complement yourself and her cheat like a bastard stare at other girls when your with her always talk and listen less be rude as hell burp/fart around her. total turn on with most girls! hope i helped too....
  • Be yourself most importantly. Don't rush into things enjoy each stage of the relationship Be thoughtful, and respectful towards her Be open and honest and ofcourse make sure she is the above with you as well.
  • Don't ever take her for granted. Don't talk about how hot other girls are around her. Listen to what she wants to say but don't be quiet the whole time because then it might be just weird and you might stop listening. Don't ever make her go farther than she wants to. Don't be over protective but don't just be like whatever I don't care if guys talk about her like she's a slut or anything. And yeah.. Tell her how beautiful she is and compliment her a lot..
  • just don't get too intense at first cuz that scares away most girls. Don't try to be anything that you're not. Don't change who you are for her. Never tell her an outfit makes her look fat. If you tell her you love her, make sure you mean it. Compliment her (she'll blush and act akward but she likes it)
  • 1)sex is not owed to you 2)dont push her for things you arent willing to do yourself 3)dont change for her, you need to be you!
  • how to give her good oral sex
  • dont be clingy, let her be the one to look for you, Dont overwelm her with compliments. Give her one, once in a while
  • You know what? Just listen to her and be respectful. You're gonna mess up no matter what. It's true. Just do your best, don't lie, and compliments are always nice too.
  • You are already on the right path because you are here asking for advice. Kuddos to you and your desire to be a good partner cause that says it all..
  • Two things. Compromise, and understand that you will screw up. It always happens, she will too. It's all about learning from the mistake.
  • Just be yourself. It sounds like your attitude is a million times better than that of my last boyfriend. He always said everything was MY fault and that I messed everything up. You have a head start because you sound humble and generous. So just stay the way you are. But I guess just try not to make any bathroom jokes and always be confident. Don't every act worried or needy. :-) good luck!
  • dude seriously just be honest!! im 16 too and my ex hid things from to try nd keep me happy and thats EXACTLY y i broke up w/ him my current bf went to a party got drunk and made out w/ another girl but u no what? he came straight to me to apologize and i fricken love him for it i dnt even care i forgave and forgot basically... seriously...thats the trick to proper tennage relationships..good luck boi!!! treat her good nd ull b fine
  • Putting her first is important as girls get upset if they feel they come somewhere in your priorities behind mates, sports, and partying (but you don't sound like the kind of guy who would do that anyway).
  • There is no "formula" for a proper relationship - as all relationships are unique to the couple involved. Here's a few hints to get you started. First off, you should be yourself - being honest is the best foundation for any relationship. Second thing - relax, let things happen at their own pace, don't rush things. Third thing - think about the wishes and expetations of your relationship pardner, try to work things out where their needs and yours are met. Compromise where necessary and be generous when you can. Finally, don't think about screwing up or your likely to screw up. And just be yourself - women can spot phonies from miles away. Now go get 'em tiger!
  • Tell the truth and be honest with her, she will appreciate it, even if she isn't happy about whatever happened.
  • Be sweet,thoughtful,undertanding but stilll manly! lol girls like guys that are really sweet but don't act feminine! and wel love it when boys think about us and surprise us with little presents even when it isnt a special occasion! its so sweet and remember all the little things count!
  • Respect her. Treat her like the lady she undoubtedly is.
  • Don't over do it! Honesty from yourself and ask for it in return.
  • be yourself and shes sure to luv yah! :)
  • Don't worry it wont be your only girl I can ensure it. Be yourself and the experience will come to you in time as you grow up and have more relationships. When i was your age i thought my first love would be the only one too, but it was wrong.
  • Give respect and love… give simple, cute & loving gifts it’ll make her think of you.. When you try to give, give and give without expecting anything much … you’ll get best of the best… Dude believe me. I have come across an article in one website, its about 10 ideas for writing a love letter, those are very simple and cool.. Don’t remember exact link but check www.whatsospecialtoday.com probably in girls section you’ll find it… Happy Relationship. Ananth
  • She needs to be able to trust you (and you her) which means not a controlling realtionship (WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN? WHERE DID YOU GO? WHO'S THAT???) but just being perfectly honest with each other. And after that honesty and after opening up to each other, and after a certain period of time, if you think you just don't have, um, or see an "old soul", I guess it's no big deal.
  • if she has enyfing 2 tlk 2 u bwt listen 2 her,mke sure yuu ave tym 4 her nd if she eva wnts 2 meet yuu dnt bring ur m8s along unless she wants u 2 .............x

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