ANSWERS: 16
  • that right there was some jerry springer shit LOL!!!
  • Id be very upset they waited 10 years to tell me. And I wouldnt sleep with them i would feel to uncomfortable with the whole situation. I know this sounds awful but i would probably get a divorce and run far far away no offence to anyone.
  • I'd have to say that if after 10 years of being madly in love, you didn't have sex and didn't realize your partner was a transexual, the only thing that would run deep is the location of your brain.
  • After 10 years together, I don't really see how it would matter much. They're attracted to both men and women, so what? It would be one thing if they said they'd been going out behind your back and sleeping with other people, but what really matters here is that they stayed faithfully with *You* for all that time and are attracted to *You*. As long as that's the case, who else they may be attracted to is an aside. The way I see it, the very point and definition of love is that it's a close, intimate bond between two people, it's not about sex or what the people's sexual orientation may be, it's about the fact that they love one another as *People*, not just in the context of being male and female.
  • Love = Trust = Honesty. If you love someone, you tell them everything that's important, and many things that are trivial.
  • I think I'd have some things to sort out, but I'd still love them.
  • As if you wouldn't have sex after being in love madly for 10 years! If you're so madly in love wouldn't you get married before ten years?
  • Not that deep.
  • On the part of your partner new husband/wife, not very darn deep. Complete mistrust, lies, etc. Run to an annulment ASAP. And, stop making up this crap.
  • Obviously not deep enough for both of them to be honest with each other. I would feel betrayed since they weren't honest about it earlier.
  • All the way.
  • Wow..hard to say. My eyes would immediately become big like tennis balls and stunned there for awhile, and ask my lover if she likes someone else?
  • I think morals would interveen!
  • Well first of all there's no way in hell I'd not have screwed this person before marrying them!!! Second, marriage is not about love is about being able to put up with each other long enough to get that far.
  • If they are a transexual there would have been a problem with the birth cirtificate for the wedding. Other than that if they are a true transexual it would make no difference. They would have had the operation to give them the body that matches their brain and emotional development.

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