After 32 YEARS...I'd say you have a hell of a problem here! Have you two talked about it...as in..has he said what it is about it that he doesn't like? Diet plays a big part in how we all taste...men a lot...but women too. You can be clean as clean can be, and still have a flavor that "bothers" him. The type of soap you use, how well it is rinsed out, and also ANY MEDICATIONS that you normally take can also effect how you taste. The fur can also be a factor...not in the taste but in the texture. Personally, I like my partner to let me trim or shave back a bit right in the middle, leaving the rest of the hair alone. (I just can't get turned on if she has shaved the whole thing...I want to be with an adult not a child looking love nest) However, I do not like it when the hairs in the very middle of the slit are getting in the way of my tongue and lips...I want to feel the soft, warm, slippery wetness of her without the stray hair looping into the middle of my tongue! (it's not so much that it will make me gag or anything...it's totally a texture issue for me) She, on the other hand, doesn't want me to trim AT ALL, she is very turned on by the red color of my fur and says it is so soft that it adds to her arousal..she likes to "nosh" it to either side..(I'd just as soon trim it back a bit, but we each try to please the other and this is a small issue in the big love making picture after all, so it's pretty easy to grow or snip accordingly!...ummm we're lesbians, if you hadn't figured that out already). You might try using Karma Sutra Mint "soap" to clean with...it's made to be ingested so even if a tiny bit remains after rinsing well...it's ok...other Karma Sutra eatable oils might also help...if it's a flavor issue for him. This can be really hurtful and frustrating. I had one boyfriend, many years ago who didn't like going down...I learned about 3 yrs or so into our 4 yr relationship that HIS MOTHER had sexually molested him AND his brother when they were in High School...so he had some REAL freaky issues (that I had not known about)...he liked sex, and he enjoyed making me cum, in fact it was really important to him to be a good lover, but he just could not enjoy giving oral sex...under the circumstances...I didn't blame him! (his mother, however, I could have killed with glee...my God..how could she?) You've been together a pretty long time for this day and age...you must love each other a great deal, despite this issue. I'm sure you both have worked hard to compromise, forgive, and make this work, personally I bow to you both...because you have been together a good while, when many just seem to give up. The only thing I can suggest is to try and talk honestly about it...(not in bed and not while drinking) over coffee maybe <wink>. See if there is anything you can come up with together to help him get past his reluctance...trimming...using eatable soap...or if the idea of it just bugs him...maybe he could speak to a councilor about it..this isn't an easy one at all...as you say...lack of enthusiasm pretty much ruins it for you...it would for me too! I hope it gets better for you both.

sexy and clean, do you mean clean as in waxed or shaved, either way how could he resist. I would be there for hours or longer if you wanted

You could have vaginosis. This might make it smell funny down there. Antibiotics will fix it.

The old saying is, "There's no accounting for taste." I often want to add, "Or lack of it." . There is nothing I like more than going down on a woman. I've been married for 32 years too. My wife used to tolerate it once a month unless she had anything we had disagreed about. Then nothing doing for that month. She went off like a rocket every time we did it. She couldn't cum any other way. So it's not like she wasn't into that style of sex. . When she "accepted" it she would just say: "Let's have sex." and she'd lay down on the bed and wait for me to do her. It could never be at my initiation. Only she could decide when. Never any reciprocation. I finally got fed up with it and said I'm not going down that one-way street anymore. We haven't had any intimacy now for many years. You can read more on this at http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1155096 and my answer to further explain the question.

It's because he's a selfish fuck you should stop feeding, and fucking, and doting on. That's what I did and I found someone who eats me out all the time.

WELL SIT HIM DOWN AND TALK ABOUT IT TELL HIM THAT YOU ENJOY IT AND DONT WANT TO STOP GET HIM TO DO IT MORE OFTEN

i love doing that i spend the time to get the job right.until im invited "in" i just keep working it.I LOVE IT I LOVE IT