My husband has a large penis and i dont like having sex because it hurts to much . we also want a baby does anyone know of positions that would work better for us?

I live your situation every day... My husband has not only a thick but long penis. Some positions are less painful than others. Sex with legs down always hurt less, spooning is also very good cause it cushions the penetration, also laying on your tummy flat legs slightly closed. These should help you for now, your being on top will hurt even more, beleive me. The trick to being with someone with a large penis is not to shy away, yes it hurts, but your vagina will grow used to the size and eventually you will love having sex with your man, sex with him will be the most mindblowing experience you have ever had and the positions will become easier and more enjoyable. On the plus it gets alot easier when you have your first child.....oh yeah, lots of oral sex helps, it gets you so excited with anticipation that the penetration is easier and more enjoyable.....Good luck.

spooning is nice because your butt will cushion his thrusts, and you still have petty good control over how deep he goes by how you angle your hips. plus it maks it easier to play with yourself and stay super aroused!

Lying flat down on your belly with your legs straight out might help. As well, it may help to practice with a toy slightly smaller than him for a while. My guy is bigger too and when we first slept together (or tried to lol) he couldn't even get completely in me cause it hurt so much for me. I practiced with a dildo for a few weeks and it made things much better. Practice makes perfect, and the vagina is flexible and elastic. As they always say, if a baby's head can fit through there, a man's penis (even a real big one) can fit in there. Like any muscle, it just needs to be exercised. Good luck! :)

Missionary, but with your legs on the inside (almost closed) and his on the outside. You could also try with him sitting up (like on a chair, or against the headboard) and you on top.

try to relax and don't let it in your head that he's going to hurt you before you even get started. that will only make your vagina more tense and make you less aroused. the more turned on and relaxed you are the better!

try the missionary with your legs straight down and almost completely together, your knees locked straight, (your heels almost together and toes pointing outwards) and his legs right on top of yours... he may take a minute to find is angle and rhythm but he will figure it out and you will both LOVE it! his penis will rub your clit, your vainal opening will be pleasantly taught, and he won't be able to pound on your cervix.

On your knees and him underneath you!

Also, lots of foreplay to get you wet and warm!

Try very slowly him going in!

we had a similar situation, for us it helped when she did it more, it strecthed her out. We came to an agreement that she would have sex at least twice everyday. Being that I travel for work regularly this meant her having sex with other men. Once she agreed and started having sex with other men our sex life became incredible. email me if you want more details.

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artificial insemination?

seriously, i had a similar problem with a gf-not beacuse I'm so big but because she hadn't had sex in literally years. work with a didlo-there're some mighty big one's out there-until you can accomodate him. Make sure everything's good a moist.

he'll love it when you can take him in deep.

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Very good common sense info.
Some pain can be psychological and some can be a sign of a physical issue you need to get check with your OB/GYN.

Ask him if he has a friend with a smaller penis. Let the little guy go first, to get you nice and lubricated.

 

It's like being pile drived by a jackhammer!

I disagree with the other woman on the whole woman-on-top hurts more thing. My husband's length is about average, my problem is that he's very thick. So I was really hoping to find some answers here. I have to say that the whole lying on your stomach, legs flat and closed is a bad idea for me. First of all, it offers no clitoral stimulation. But beyond that, it puts him more in control. And with something like this, it's important that you have control. I don't know about your husband, but mine tends to get a little gung-ho, so when it's him on top in any way, he tends to want to just go in. I like cowgirl because it allows me to sort of ease him in. I also try to take it slow, and use LOTS of lubricant. We're pretty new to our marriage, so unfortunately it still hurts a lot for me, and I bleed almost every time. I heard when you have your first baby, the doctor sews you up tighter than before - I'm debating telling him to leave it as is.

I had this problem for several months with my partner. He was too big in width and length but everyday he gave me oral pleasure and entered me for a few minutes giving me a few a thrusts till i got used to it. It took me a while but i got there. We also used sensation condoms for the first few times. With tingling lubricant and lots of fingering. He also entered me while i was having an orgasm. So i didnt think about the pain. Know sex is great for us both. By all means Its still a bit painfull As he is so big but way better than the beggining. Just keep practising with a few thrusts for a couple of minutes everyday after a bit of foreplay. You'll soon be at it like rabbits in no time.

Do not get taken by the people who say it will get better with practice or childbirth, etc. Our body is programmed by our Genes. Remember when you get injured on hands or legs (small cuts etc.) your body grows your skin and muscle back as before, unless of course the cut or injury is too big to heal right. Same is true about vagina. If it gets a little stretched, it heals right back. Yes, after childbirth it gets slightly looser but not by much and sometimes if the tears needs to be sewed by the doctor, it actually becomes narrower than before. Also, childbirth has no impact on the length of the vagina. Yes, you can learn how to relax your muscles better but that only works for new at sex because they could be tight due to being nervous or inexperienced. If you have been having sex for a while and are relaxed during sex, your vagina is not going to get any bigger with time and more practice. Unluckily you have what you have, it is not going to change. (Just think about it if muscles could change with time and practice, we would not be able to hold our shit in our anus a few years after we stopped growing.) So you have two choices. Either find someone else with a smaller penis or if you are extremely in love then put up with the pain and discomfort for the rest of your life. Believe me I am talking from experience.

i guess u should open your leg wider and stick it in

Gotta get a sex swing, my husbands penis is very thick and long, sex can be painful for me even after lots of oral sex, the sex swing holds my legs in the air yet still allows me to control the depth of penetration and I can adjust how i take it to get me the best sex ever. When he just hammers me in a fixed position it is enjoyable yet painful. There are alot of interesting things that can be done in a swing and your boyfriend/ hubby will love the adventurous attitude. He'll be hot for it whenever you want it.

My man is long (10 in) and very thick. When we first started i couldn't take it all but with time and experiment I am now able to take him all in and squeeze him tight which drives him crazy. He says I am milking him. When he is behind me I squeeze my pussy and do all the moving, that way I control the depth. If your man is thrusting too deep when he comes, ask him to pull almost out. My guy loves this as he can shoot farther. then thrust in a few times, whit the extra lube from his cum it should be easy for you.
Also, when I am on top I am able to control depth too by sitting up a little further on his shaft. i get clit stimulation and penetration.
Just last night we found a great new position. the frog. I was on all fours with my knees spread wide. and face low, almost on the bed so my ass was way up in the air. usually that would let him hit my cervic, but with my legs so wide, i guess the angle was just right and he could ram deep with out a direct hit. this also allows the woman to squeeze tighter as her inner thigh muscles are pulled taunt.

Either that or you are too tight .. rubber first my help

I have been married 7 yrs and I still have problems - having sex with my husband he is way to big, long (by the way we have 6 kids together) Before we have sex i need to be very relaxed and need foreplay, I find it best on top that way I control how deep he goes in. If I drink a beer or two it does make me less tensed and relaxed but I do not make that a habit maybe once every 2-3 weeks however that is when we seem to have he best sex ever!

Just pray he never wants anal............

My husband and I had to take care of his 65 year old father for a couple months. I feel a little guilty about this but being that I did not work and my husband was never home, one thin g led to another with his dad. My husband was almost too large for me to handle, but the father was just slightly smaller. For that 2 month period, I was kept sexually in tuned and it paved the path for sex with my husband. I know my body better and I also can get aroused much faster . His penis size no longer bothers me either. I am not advocating cheating, but I do reccomend that you find a method of keeping your female parts in proper tune.

My husband penis is very large also, as well as thick and when we were trying to conceive our first child, it really hurt as we were trying to keep it exciting while meting the peaks and valleys of my ovulation cycles and temperatures. We tried many things and positions, but what turned out the least painful was me on my belly with my knees together in a half dogy position, (so that I was not stright up on all fours), it also helped me control his penetration, specially when he was ready to ejaculate and wants to thrust me into the wall. I was hoping that after the baby was born it would be easier, but I ended up having a cesarian and my vagina is still not use to him completely. If you love him and talk to him...explain that both parties need to be "ready" so that your bodies can handle more. Be patient. Over time, we did work it out and it is very satisfying...the benefit of being patient and not giving up has a great reward, your body will get use to him.

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I would agree with sexykat. My husband has a gigantic penis. He makes guys like John Holmes and Tommy Lee look like little boys. The first time I saw it I was so scared! I loved him so much but I hated how big it was- I htought it was not fair to meet my perfect man and his penis was like 2- 2 liter bottles. But my love saw it through and now it is the most amazing sex I have ever had! And we have been married over 17 years! And it did get a lot easier after we had kids too. I love knowing that I am probably the only woman who can satisfy my big sexy man! So give it time and be patient, if you take it slow and keep working at it you will stetch enough to fit him. (It took me almost 2 years though- thats how patient I was)

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