ANSWERS: 5
  • I don't think you should make anyone make that kind of choice. Suck it up for one day for your families happiness. It comes back 10 fold. Have a Happy Thanksgiving. Be thankful, not complicated.
  • Your question seems to be about picking and choosing holiday guests and how people are reacting to it. Here's the bottom line. Family is family. Thanksgiving is a single day, a single meal. Do your best to put aside whatever differences you have and sit at a table to an hour with the entire family. It won't kill anyone and it might lay groundwork for better relations in the future.
  • I'm sorry if this isn't the answer you wanted but...grow up alittle...no offence but i've done this before too....you might not like a family me,mber but what can you do?? they are family...and if they don't show up someone will be unhappy...if you don't go, you might not know it now but you will also regret it... you need to cherish every family member you have cause one day they will nbot be around to bug you-_- and it will hurt you more than you know...
  • Thats kind of sad that you can't put aside your differences for a single day and enjoy this family gathering. You could always be the bigger person and insist everyone show up.
  • So you see her 1 time a year and you can't stand her? You'll make your mom not invite her sister or your dad his sister, just to make you happy? What is it about her you cannot stand? Is it a personal problem? Was she abusive to you? If she has done nothing to you and its a personality problem, it seems to me it's your own problem, get over it. You don't have to be her best friend, but for goodness sakes be civil and grow up. It's all a matter of putting others ahead of you. Think about your family before you think about you. There are very few things you do that do not effect other people. How do you think your aunt will feel being told she can't come together with the whole family because a bratty niece doesn't like her? I'd be pissed at that bratty little neice and come anyway to spend time with my family.

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