Hell no! Never!

Definitely not! If you can't raise the child, go through with the pregnancy then adopt out. But first.. hold that little bundle & see if your heart changes :)

You know, I have to say that it is crap like this that just enfuriates me. You are willing to have unprotected sex cause it feels better than sex with a condom but not willing to take the responsibility of a child when you get her pregnant. WOW. What happened to real men? ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION: Your relationship will never be the same. The question alone will make her feel as if you are not able to properly love her, No matter how much you tell her otherwise. Taking a life from a woman causes a damage that is rarely repairable. and if she does go through with an abortion, she will always blame you. Maybe you should attend an ultrasound then see how you feel after you hear your child's heartbeat.

No. If she chose to do it, I'd support her, if she chose to have the baby I would support her. We screwed (no pun intened) up by not being safe enough. All I can hope is that we make the right decision and are more careful from now on.

Unless the statistics have changed lately, most relationships only outlast an abortion by about 18 months. Worth thinking about, apart from moral values.

If you met me you would think I'm a averagely healthy a little bit too tall probably man. I'm in pretty good shape now though I would admit I do have some love handles. Growing up though I had a sleugh of problems (severe - real severe - asthma, liver and kidney problems, allergic to everything, and some other genetic disorders with my internal organs out of place) then there are the things that are just weirrd that have and will face probably (adult onset torrets - or something like that - runs in the family - plus other mental disorders that I don't really care to look into.) My parents did go to a genetic counceler who said "don't have a kid" but they did anyway - two even. Most of my noticeable ailments where solved ( there was a medical advancement) with an operation when in my twenties. Before which I had already had a vesectomy in case. At this point the others are treateble through other advancements. Still - ack then -as now - for me- if I got someone pregnant I would insist on an abortion. The gal I'm with now had to have her uterus removed in her 20's do to health problems (she is a real looker too - she has won beauty contests on a lark etc - real athletic). I'm a very productive member of society who has done well financially (mostly because as a kid I had no choice but to read and learn math. I could adopt, but still if it was mine - I would stongly support abortion and if that didn't happen I would support the pillow. The fact is - no-one was very helpful when I was a kid and needed help - I ended up sick and poor. My parents were weak willed for having me - and weaker willed in raising me - and the community could of given a damn I suppose but they didn't. Now I am very confortable - I ended up with a certain amount of smarts - which is torturous in its own way - as I think many here at answerbag would contest. I support other people kids when I can. I've put money asside even for my neighbors kids college - unrelated to me. But if it was mine it would no be allowed to live - God be damned if thats what it takes.