ANSWERS: 9
  • sorry but you ARE jealous ...stop it and stop it now !!! he has told you your the one for him so trust him ...or can't you do that ....he has a kid to this other lady so he has to see her if he is to see his kid and what he says about the holidays is true !they do share a kid... but you share his heart
  • Put it this way, if I split up with my kids mother and started seeing another woman who then tried to stop me from seeing my kids (or even tried to make me feel guilty for doing so) then I would leave her! The kids come first ALWAYS! No doubts about that! You are jealous, I feel for you, its a horrid feeling. But realise he wants YOU not this other woman. And do so now, before it is too late.
  • PLEASE, listen to buxtonite
  • My ex husband's girlfriend acts this way and when you hurt the mother you hurt the child and when you hurt the child you hurt the mother. All 3 of my children dislike their dad's girlfriend because she gets in the middle where she does not belong and interfers. Remember that child is blood and should "ALWAYS" come first. They have a child and will always need to communicate some how for the sake of that child. If you can not accept it.............leave! Remember we got divorced for a reason.
  • should you be jealous? Probably not, but being jealous isn't a matter of should be or shouldn't be. Is there anything that you could do that would make you more comfortable with the situation without asking him to spend less time with the child?
  • Can you go with them? I would want to be around to check this strange dynamic. Yes I think it's weird. They can spend some time together but you should be included at least some of the time. There is a reason they got divorced. Being buddy-buddy with your ex just isn't right to me. Time for just the 3 of them isn't really warranted. I think that you should ask to go and if he won't let you, I would worry. Sorry. Good luck.
  • Oh, bruther! The age-old he loves me, he loves me not dilemma
  • Well the obvious problem is the child - it's wrong of him to spend time with him/her. Kill it and you'll have him all to yourself.
  • Why can't you go with them? If he doesn't want you to then there is a problem...ask him.

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