If it's that bad, give her her walking papers and find someone who gets wet when the think about doing you.

It sounds like she's into S&M and is a little submissive. She seems to like being forced and into rough play. There's nothing wrong with it at all, many people love this kinda stuff. Of course it can cause problems if you're not into it either. You should both openly talk about it and be open to each other's turn ons.

You two need to have a very long talk and LISTEN. It's important that both people respect each other both sexually and emotionally. It sounds to me like she may either be very sexually dominating, or as mentioned she wants it rougher than you are comfortable with, or she sees sex as a way to hold on to you...and instead of HEARING what you are saying...and trying to do..(being a bit slower..wanting to savor the foreplay) she believe that "all guys" want to hurry up and get it on! I would say you need to get her to talk about this...if you haven't already. It maybe that she was sexually abused when she was younger...this can cause several different reactions in an adult woman. Some become "Sex Addicts." They may assuredly have NOT liked being abused as a child, and the memories may be very upsetting to them as an adult...but in a very twisted way...they believe that THEIR IMPORTANCE, THEIR VALUE as a person, is based upon their sexual self...their ability to do "anything" sexually, to be demanding about sex (this is related to them NOT having had any CONTROL over the situation as a child and needing to feel in control NOW) It can also be related to the person (male or female) NOT LIKING SEX because of the past abuse...so they may put on "a good show" of sexual aggression, while what is going through their mind is to hurry up and get it over with! If this is the case, if she was abused as a child or teen by an adult, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT..AND YOU CAN NOT FIX IT BY YOURSELF...she will need help from a professional to work through the horrible tapes that play in her mind...it's a process and you may or may not be up for staying with her while she tries to work through it...it can take YEARS to work through sexual abuse issues... The first thing you have to do is TALK about this and tell her how YOU feel...and encourage her to speak up too...it may be nothing nasty in her past at all. It may be that you two simply are NOT sexually compatible and you both need to move on...but if you both care about each other...and want to have a relationship...I say talk now...and see what you can both do to make it work.

I say she's into something....ummm..different..I am alitle adventurer myself but i dont think i would try that she like the pain..i believe....TURN IT AROUND ON HER....you become the rough dominating one....turn her on by being rough back but make her wet b4 starting sex. Try turning her on her back and insisting on foreplay. You seems your into a very loving sexual relationsip... be yourself just turn it up a notch. Caress her a little rougher than usual and see how she likes it.This may turn her on and make her wet...TRY LUB. aslo...forcing the lube on her.If this doesnt work I agree that you need to have a conversation....about what you both enjoy during sex and make a compromise. Having a relationship and being in love is about negotiating both persons desires...put a little you into sex and a little her. If she or you are not willing to compromise then ending the relationship may be whats best

Send her to me, she will never force me, I promiseI am looking for girl like her.

No you really don't need to talk about it at all. Trust me there are more than enough women out there that will be more to your sexual liking than this one. Why waste time trying to "fix" her. She shouldn't try to change you and you shouldn't try to change her just move on a find a better match for you. PS. I've seen stuff like this result in a false rape accusation at the time of break up since she probably has vaginal tearing do to the way she's making you sleep with her so DON'T sleep with her for a good two weeks before you send her packing just to be sure (oddly enough by female standards you're being raped but that double standard is a topic for another day).

maybe keep a bottle of ky next to the bed. but if your that turned off then you need to go your own way.