Looking back, did you make a good decision about when, where and how and to whom when you lost your virginity? (I don't consider being raped losing virginity. I mean the choice of having intercourse for the first time.)
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When? Where? How? Yes. yes. Yes. It was with my first love. It was in his room. It was freakin' painful. but i'll never regret it or him
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I waited until I knew it was with the right person... I wish I would have waited, but I loved him and he loved me... we're still together... we're getting married actually... I was glad that I waited for him... it's not always like in the movies, but it's definatly something you should remember... it's special...
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Thought I did...I was soo wrong...
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I was kinda tense from going so long being a virgin and all. So, I gave it up. If I knew that B**tch was going to stab me in the back, I would have gladly waited another 19 years.
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Yes, it was a good choice. It was my wedding night, and we'd chosen to wait for it, and it was lovely. There's nothing like learning about sex together, growing over time, trying out new stuff when neither of you tried it before, and just having fun with it. We are, of course, still married, and will be so long as we're both alive.
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Kinda depends really, I lost my virginity to a girl I didn't (and still don't) know. We met at a party and went at it an hour later in the back of the house. I don't really regret it, but I do wish I had at least the chance to fall asleep afterwards, getting up and walking back with my drunk self wasn't fun. Oh and I can't remember much of it because I had drank so much, fun eh? Anyway I digress, No I don't regret it, but I wish I could at least remember her name.
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Yes to all the above. It was a decision I made and I have never regretted it. He knew what he was doing and it was a wonderful experience.
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No it was done for the wrong reasons and I regret it but I was so naive.
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well, i don't know that i decided all of those things beforehand, but yes, i would say i made a good decision. i was even on birth control (which was my own idea) before i had sex, so i had definitely put some thought into it.
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I wish I would have taken my body more seriously. You know, not for curiosity sake. Wow, what a disappointment!!!!!!!!!
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Yes I believe that I did...cause that person meant so much to me that the future for both of us are already set in eternity...we are just moving and walking together towards it...
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I waited long enough that I was with the right person and the right time.
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Yes, it went to my husband on my wedding night. He is my best and only lover.
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Good decision with whom and when, but the choice of where and how... bad very bad
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no... me & the guy were only dating 2 months and 2 weeks later we broke up. seems like thts all he wanted.
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It was my 25th birthday. He seduced me. We made love on the bed upstairs at his house. He was pretty good. I thought I was in love. We lasted another year or two, but we eventually broke up. Would I make the same decision again? I don't think so, but he was very persistent and I was in love with him at the time. Still, if I knew then what I know now, I might not have done it.
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bad choice of who. Lost it to a virgin. the 2nd time with him sucked as much as the first time. It put me off sex for a year LOL
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i was never a typical virgin i was molested/raped at 4,but i did cherish my "willing virginity" this is what i called it very much bc it was all i had as far as my choice and i gave it to my ex fiance 2 weeks b4 our wedding then found out he was already married...i lived with him for 2 yrs..and never knew but i do now and i sadly have to say i dont regret it because he was very gentle and loving and careful with me "i have alot of scar tissue inside of me-im not even supposed to be able to have kids...and he knew that and made sure not to hurt me and i thank him for it,but id have to say no it wasnt the most intelligent decision,i should have just waited 2 weeks but i didnt i had lived with him for 2 yrs and we both thought i was ready and i was he was just a liar...
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I absolutely wouldn't change anything, except maybe I might have wanted to try it earlier. The woman that I lost it to was wonderful. She gave me a very good experience (she was not a virgin).
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No, not a good decision. I was a dumb kid influenced by hormones. Totally regretted it later. It did feel real good at the time though. :-)
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I made a good decision. I had a great guy, timing, place, etc. I wouldn't take it back even if I could.
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with all the partners folks have in casual relationships arent we beyond idolising virginity?
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I wouldn't change a thing
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i only lost it about 4 months ago. and truthfully... im not really sure i cared that i lost it. i didn't feel a thing... it was just kinda normal... i guess you could say... it wasn't a good or bad decision but i suppose as i get older i will think more about it and wonder if i really did do it right... i loved him and i was okay with him and i having intercourse. i got to choose and there was no pressure. so i was alright.
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