by Anonymous on October 31st, 2007

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My lover doesn't want me to have sex with anyone else, but sometimes he wants to pretend like I am. I play along, but sometimes am unsure what to do, and sometimes it turns me off.

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  • by Agostwriter on November 3rd, 2007

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    He deserves to know that he is turning you off just as he needs you to help him know when he is turning you on. I think your feelings need to be important to him and if they aren't . . .

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  • by Anonymous on November 1st, 2007

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    Remember that play time is your time, too. If it turns you off, tell him so. Try and explore a fantasy you can both live with.

    For instance, if he wants to pretend that you are sleeping with other people, consider getting a doll or sex toy that actually symbolizes that very fetish. If that doesn't get your motor going, then tell him to be more specific.

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