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First, let him no that there are boundaries. Sleeping in a bed with the opposite sex can be considered one. Second, List your boundaries to him well aware he may not accept it. Tell him because you feel uncertain about his intentions, trust is earned. Earn it. Do you know her?
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Yes i do know her. He was always getting drunk with her and staying at hers in her bed both only in pants. Sharing a bed is one thing, practically naked is another. He says the kiss made him realise it had gone too far. The only thing is his only excuse is he was drunk. He says he never felt anything for her which makes me confused as to why he was willing to jepordise our relationship!! I told him I didnt like him spending so much time with her and he said he realised that he should have spent more time with me & promised that nothing had ever happened and that he slept on the sofa. I feel like the whole start of our relationship was a lie. I know he's sorry and regrets it and has chosen me now but i just dont know if its going to come back later in our relationship. As you can see I have thought about this a lot!!!
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If you wanna be with him forgive him, but first make it clear what you expect of him, eg. its ok to have friends of the opposite sex, but staying over at hers is a no no. People make mistakes when they`re drunk, i`m sure you`ve made a few! Life`s short and you don`t get too many chances at love, hold onto him if it feels right in your head & heart. if not....... hit the road jack!
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