My fiance and i have been together for 3 years. The last 7 months we have driffed apart there was no closeness at all. she realizes the mistakes she made and wants to fix it now. Thing is i have met someone else and feel very strongly about her.
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After three years together and you suddenly drifted apart sounds like boredom to me. If it happened once, it will happen again. Good thing boredom occurred before a marriage, instead of after you each said I DO. Who knows? maybe this is a test period for each of you. If its meant to be, its meant to be.
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I think the best thing is to sit down with your fiance and be totally honest with her. Dont let her think you are going to try to work it out with her, you will only be giving her false hope. Maybe you should both take a break for say 6 months or so and see how you feel then, you might think you like this other girl but maybe you are just looking for a getout clause. Time will tell... better to break up now than after you are married, believer me!!
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First you need to decide if you want to try to fix things with your fiance. If you are going to try, you will need to take the time away from the other girl, otherwise you might not be able to figure out any of your feelings. This way you will know that you are giving it an honest chance. If you can't fix things with your fiance, and your new feelings are legitimate, they will probably still be there when you figure out that things just aren't going to work. From experience I know that sometimes we think we have feelings for someone else if we become 'bored', as it was referred to before. For me I realized these were not the same type of feelings i felt for the other person, but like I said, you have to clear your mind of it before you can figure out if this is the case for you.
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