If you love someone so much but you're not happy anymore, will you stay or leave?
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ANSWERS: 7
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If I love them, I would try to find out where it went wrong and see if it could be fixed. Usually it's a matter of communication - the lack of good communication. And sometimes it's just not recognizing that the buzz you feet when you first fell in love has become something deeper, more durable, but quieter. That quiet can be mistaken for not being in love anymore.
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I would try to work it out with them,...and if Im still not happy, I would leave.
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It depends. If the unhappiness was caused by something serious like her cheating on me then hell no. I would be out of there so fast her head would be spinning like Reegan's head in the exorcist. If it was just simple unhappiness, I would take a serious look at the situation and try to figure out what is making me unhappy. Then I would fix it in any way necessary be it counseling, seeing her in a more positive light or whatever it took. If after have put forth all my effort I still felt unhappy I might consider leaving at least for a little bit.
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If I love them then it's worth trying to work it out. If in the end it's hopeless I will so that we can both be happy. Not because I don't love them, but because I love them enough to want to see them happy.
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I don't really get how you can love someone that you're not happy with, and if you love them how you can not be happy being with them. If you are talking about problems that came along well thats the whole point in finding someone to be with. You both agree to work though those trials that life brings our way.
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I would probably take a breather alone to see how I feel afterwards if I still feet the same love for her I would try to make it work out first before calling it quits.
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My ex is an alcoholic and there were other things he did that destroyed my trust. Now since the divorce we are trying to be friends to figure out where it all went wrong. He isn't drinking anymore. But when anything of a physical nature comes up even just a hug, I want to run 90 miles an hour the hell out of there. I feel trapped and smothered and I panic. Does that mean I don't love him anymore or does it mean I'm terrified to love him because I don't trust him?
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