Tell him its your turn to be on top, and tell him if he doesn't like it then he can be on top next time.I think once he experiences you being on top his mind will change.

If you continue doing it that same postition forever sex will get boring and sex is very important in a marriage so you should try and convince him to try multiple positions. Although my favorite postion is me on top still i have had with the girl on top and I liked it.

Buckle up babe...it's going to be a bumpy ride! You probably have more future problems than "who's on top" to contend with if your new husband honestly believes the drivel that you have shared he does...unless you are content to be a meek, fairly spineless, quiet little mouse with few if any original thoughts in mind...you are NOT going to enjoy life with this banal, dated and backward buffoon! Tell him to lighten up and open his mind! Oral sex is fun...BOTH giving and Both getting...switching positions is fun...side by side in an "L" sort of position is great because he can be in you and still reach your clit with his fingers to stimulate you all the way to a blasting orgasm...while he is inside of you...when I was straight..my ex husband LOVED that one..since he could then totally feel my orgasm as well...my ex boyfriend loved it too...it was a winner all around! Does he also believe that it is THE MAN'S PLACE to manage all the money and the bills and that you shouldn't "trouble your little head" about such matters??? Oy Vey..ack ack! I sure hope I got a totally wrong impression here...I'd like you BOTH to have a much happier life than such would indicate!

Do you suppose it is a taboo with him that he can only be in that proper missionary position? (My ex wife was that way).. Or is it a "I'm driving" you are just a woman kind of thing? If it is the first one, with a little talk and time, you can have him pulling hair and biting necks in no time. If it is the latter, you probably need to get him councelled... You don't need all that "man is superior" $hi+. Either way, good luck to you. I hope you find yourself in a position where one of you is swinging from a chandelier in a bottomless clown suit while the other is breaking out the nekked twister board.

see another reason not to wait till after your married .... but if he's like this in bed then he's going to be like this in sooo many other areas of your marriage ...stand up to him NOW!! remember your EQUAL to him in everyway ...and a mans place is to treat you with the respect your deserve in all aspects of life and in your marriage...thats the mans place !! not being a condescending fool...gggrrrr fools like your hubby give the rest of us men a bad name

Since the two of you waited till you were married to have sex and it's only been 3 weeks your husband probably has a lot of pent up sexual energy. It's just possible that he's using the "man on top" as an excuse because he's nervous or worried that if the two of you try anything different he will get to excited and everything will be over before it gets started. If that's the case you may want to let him climax once, wait a little while and then get his motor going again, maybe let him doze off and get on top and try not to wake him all the way up. Or you could tell him you're sore (and you probably really are if you just got married) and you read this information (which you are reading right now)that you should alternate positions to help alieveate and prevent sorness.