Yes.. why hold back? If you do not tell them.. you will probably wonder for the rest of your life.. if you tell them.. then at least you tried and know how they feel.. not knowing is the worst feeling ever.. Better to know.

Ooh....This is a hard one... I don't know, it depends...if they are in a relationship, then no I wouldn't. If they were single, then yeah I probably would tell them,I just hope that it doesn't ruin our friendship, and that they feel the same way about me...

I'm looking forward to these answers...because that's sort of the boat I'm in right now - and I'm not sure what to do. Possibly ruin a good friendship, or maybe take it to a different level.

Do you have any indacation on how he feels about you? I would use caution b/c you might end up with nothing...no friendship...no love. If you think he feels the same, then go for it. If you are unsure how he feels, give it some time.

Help me and my friend have become really close over the last year...we both have got each other through each of our own break ups with our BF's I am sorta confused how to read my friend..he calls me all the time, and wants to spend nearly everyday with me everyone around says we should be together.. and can see the way he is so protective of me and making sure I am ok all the time I have felt I want to be his BF for a while now and would love to have him as my partner however the way it is right now, we are in a platonic relationship and get along really well I have had many close friends during my life.. however Steve is different...I think about him all the time we sms all the time to each other and it seems our close friends are backing off from us at the moment and letting us do things as a couple.. we are going to Malaysia and Thailand together soon so it will be just the two of us for 10 days... however I dont want to ruin what I have with him if he does not feel the same there is a few clues he likes me..he has even become really fussy about what guys he likes and says he is saving himself for the right person...which is the exact words I said to him a few weeks before HELP what should I do?? Peter

I did, when I was, and it all worked out fine.

Yes I would.

I think you should, but be prepared for the nature of your friendship to change...regardless of the outcome. Obviously it will change if you feel the same way about each other (good luck for this one). But you also need to think about the possible consequences if your friend does not feel the same way as you. It could mean alot of changes for the friendship - be prepared for that.

Yes. If you want something you should grab it before others do or not you might sit and regret later. You should also be prepared to take the consequences if your friend doesnt feel the same cos the friendship might change. Some might just be friends like normal but some might want to stay away.

Ive been best friends with my best friend for 6 years. We're as close as pb&j we tell eachother EVERYTHING except that i'm in love with her (& we're both girls, which i dont get becuase i'm pretty sure i'm straight). She would still be my best friend and everything, if i told her, but she would treat me differently and it wouldnt be the same. That's why i've never told her.

Yeah, I don't think that would happen though.

If you would have asked me this a couple of months back my answer would have been yes go for it. I unfortunately now have to say don't do it unlkess you are fairly certain those feelings will be returned. I made such a dumbass move and it cost me a friend a price I wasn't willing to pay so be careful in revealing your feelings to someone unless you want to risk losing them as a friend.

I have told someone I considered to be my best friend that i was falling in love with him. We had been friends for a very long time and did have a sexual relationship at one point. It did not go well at all. Oh well

Of course. If its your BEST FRIEND, you should be able to tell them anything and they should be able to listen and handle whatever you say.

wel if u ask this to me ...then I sugest u should tell ur best friend ...cause u know a "BEST friend is some one who Listen and trysd to undersatnd"...ok SO GO AND TOLD UR BESTFRIEND......BUDY

It happened with one of my exes -- it was mutual and she got me to admit it. But I made it pretty obvious anyway, I just didn't want to say it outright.

Heck yeah! Life is too short not to!

Yes. In all honesty there are times when you can't keep those feelings inside. It takes a lot to keep your feelings for someone inside but, as someone did say on here earlier, if they are truly your best friend you should be able to tell them anything. When I told my bestfriend how I felt I thought that things were going to be forever changed, and that I would ahve pushed her away to the point where we couldn't even be good friends let alone best friends. Well, to my surprise, I woke up the next morning and we actually ended up becoming closer. She didn't come out and reciprocate the feelings that I had for her, but in many subtle ways she tells me everyday that she does in fact feel the same way I do. What an amazing thing to happen when all one needs is a little bit of luck and a little bit of change.

umm.. usually i would, but i'm in a relationship atm so i will keep it to myself..

I feel in love with my best friend and I told her because it was driving me crazy. She said she says me as her best friend and would never want to lose me. We were horseplaying one night and after we settled down I rubbed her stomach for around 45 mins and told her I loved her again. When she met her current boyfriend who is a wrestler and could kick my ass three ways to sunday I looked him dead in the eye with the most serious face I had and told him if he hurts her I will kill him. In short tell them. If they really are your best friend they will not dislike you, you may get lucky and they feel the same way. I hope someday she will feel for me. Till then I will be the best friend she needs. (Turns away and starts singing Angel by Aerosmith)

NO ... coz if she is my best friend ... she will know everything .. dnt have to tell her :D