Me and my boyfriend went to a party and i got drunk so he took me home he went back to the party and cheated on me with my best friend i only found out 2 days ago we have broken up but he said he loves me and hes sorry do i forgive him?
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it depends.. do you want to forgive him? do you think you should for give him?
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That's a really odd way to show his love. Not only did he cheat, he dropped you off and went back to the party.
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I will not forgive him. He left you at home and went back to party.. that is just pathetic. I will also get rid of my "best friend"
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no, unless you want this to repeat.
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Why should anyone have to tell you if you should forgive someone or not? You're not a sheeple are you? Go with your own judgment on life altering situations (like this one). But if you must be told what to do, yes drop his sorry butt.
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Well i think you should re think who is your best friend...but with the bf thing. only try to make it work if you see your self with him forever, i know it is hard to forgive, and there is no reason that it was ok for that to happen, but if you find him worth your time and forgiveness you should sit and talk, not argue, and scream, but talk. set guidelines and tell him sumfin like no parties unless im there. or no one on one time with any one of the opposite sex. maybe if he blames it on drinking tell him no more drinking unless your ok with it. just a suggestion.
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Only if you want too, but from the sounds of neither he nor your so-called friend deserve it. And under no circumstances should you take him back. This wasn't just random. These two planned it.
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Why would you forgive him? so he can do the same again. Good thing that you've learned what he's like, and you can move on without him.
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Did ya forgive the "bestfriend"? I'd say you need to rethink them both.
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No, move on now before the pain becomes worse down the road when you have two kids and are married when he does it again. Cutting your losses now seems to be the best move, you just have to detach the emotional side of it and don't get sucked in when you feel weak and he is groveling.
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dont do it...he had the odasity to take you home then go back to the party and cheat on you with your bestfriend...eff that, he's scum! once a cheater always a cheater, and thats prolly not his frist time cheating on you!
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it's your decision trust your gut instinct on this one.
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Welcome to the yo-yo relationship. Is that what you want? Talk is cheap. He could say it a million times and the worst thing that could happen is his tongue gets a little bit numb. What's he gonna do to make sure he never gets into a compromising situation again? Some blokes actually like the idea of keeping multiple women 'on the go'. How do you know he isn't one of them? After he's totally stuffed up your trust, you'll be suspicious of every other man you meet, always 'interrogating' them. It's very tedious being with a woman like that. So a bad man can ruin your future relationships with good men. It's sad to lose the innocence in romance but today is the day. Know when to reel in your emotions so you may see the cold light of day. Keep your eyes open and your brain in gear. Don't kid yourself, don't make excuses for him. If he really is sorry then you'll know by his actions, over a period of time, not by a few words.
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Forgive him and forget him Sounds to me that his plan of sleeping with your "best friend" was in the making long before you were drunk. With a boyfriend and a best friend like that who needs enemies?
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What a stupid guy! He should have had his way with YOU while you were passed-out drunk!
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the only person who can answer that is yourself, maybe you can forgive him but then leave him.. 1st.. he didnt respect your relationship, 2nd he didnt respected you, 3rd.. he didnt respect you as the girl's bestfriend, 4th.. he doesn't have self respect.. so go and show him that you have respect your yourself
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if hes cheated once, and in the way he did, taking you home just so you wouldnt see him do, he will definitly do it again
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no, you do not forgive him for that.
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How long have you been together? Has he done this before? It sounds kind of shady cause he took the first chance he got knowing you wouldn't be around to catch him. If he told you himself about his cheating, and is truly sorry, then maybe it can work out. Your instincts will tell you if you dont let your emotions get in the way.
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yes. always forgive him. if he says he is sorry, and he means it, then he deserves another chance.
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Hell no! Dump his pathetic ass. Don't give in to his lies. He doesn't love you. People who love one another don't do things like that. They just don't.
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gods word says forgive no matter what, but you have to decide if you want him in your life anymore.
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nope and have a chat with ms bestfriend....
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he dropped you off and went back...hmmm....what he did was a total offense to you as his girl and friend, you can forgive him but the relationship is burned between you two but i know how it feels to get twisted in the 'i love you' game, hope it works out for YOU in the end ^_^
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if you were both drunk...how come he went back...i think he made you drunk on perpase and he had already planed it with your friend..what makes you think he wont do it again..and besides she was yo best friend he cheated you with...that means he will see her more often when ever your with her...and it will remind them of that night and they will wana do t again.. do you real love him so much to forgive him ..take time and think about it.. good luck..
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nooooooooo forget him. you never cheat. spesh with the persons best friend. dont stay friends with her either.
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NO HECK NO DO NOT FORGIVE HIM thats so low and so wrong on so many levels
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Listen (or read) very carefully. I have seen these types all too often. He will do it again. Of that I have not doubt. You may not even find out he does it again but it will happen. If you can live with that then resume the relationship, if you can't call it quits as there are many unattached men around. You should forgive because that is what God says to do but he never said that you had to put yourself in that situation again.
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Did you forgive your best friend? Are you going to?
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