I like a girl that I know is no good for me, and so I have an internal struggle. I don't want to like her yet I cant stop thinking about her. At the same time I also work with her. Distancing from her isn't really possible. What should I do?
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ANSWERS: 3
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I'd either change jobs or just go with it, if the feeling is that strong, sometimes fighting it makes it worse, maybe you need to give it a go and see where it leads, you never know she might not be so bad when you get to know her personally, otherwise you will always be looking back and thinking 'what if...?'
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Why do you say she is not good for you? Maybe she is.... Clearly you reeeeaaaallly like her, and you cant stop thinking about her - which shows that no matter what - you wont stop liking her. Maybe she is good for you...
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That's a tough one... It's true that you'll never know unless you try, but if she is notorious for cheating, how far can it really go? Even if you two fall madly in love and are in a relationship 2 months down the road, will you ever be able to trust her? It's all up to you and your heart, but don't leave your head out of this decision. Would you rather have to walk away now? Or have to walk away a few months from now when you REALLY like her?
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