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I'm the same way- I've been living on my own for the last 6 years and I'm very independant and keep to myself. I am 29 and have never been married. I don't think it's a setback for you to get married if you're this way, I actually think it's a good thing. Guys are attracted to girls who are independant and can take care of themselves. I've never known any guys that liked needy, dependant girls who had no life of their own. I think you're doing fine, just keeping working on your life, your friendships, your work, and just breathing in and out. The right person will come along when you least expect. Let love unfold at it's own pace, and try to be patient.
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No, it makes good sense. This is a problem many people in relationships have to deal with. Some people need more time alone...more "space". The other person may feel they are "loved less than they love" in these situations. If there is enough understanding, this can be resolved. It takes maturity. Ideally, two people would find mates that have the same needs for closeness and "space". Love is not less because two people are physically seperated for certain periods.
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It would be a setback if you married the wrong the person. One "loner" should marry another "loner" so the two could be comfortable spending time apart (and not being clingy). Either that or the "loner" needs to marry someone with very similar interests (then again, that really should always be the case anyways), that way the other person isn't always having to pretend to like whatever it is the "loner" is into.
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No it makes sense.Im the same sometimes.Tell your new wife or husband[if you are geting married P.S.Congradulations if you are!]that sometimes you need space but not getting divorsed.like time away from her like not sneaking off but time to think just say to him or her that somtimes you like time to yourself.
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