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  • I have found through my years, that when I am not looking and content with myself, that's when I am most attractive it would seem. Those were the times that love found me.
  • You probably just need tostop trying so hard, you need to figure out all your anxieties and confidence issues for yourself before you drag somebody else into your life, when youaccomplish this, you'll realize that girlfriends will pop up in the least expected places and then, you'll not seem so desperate in their eyes.
  • Don't give up on girls...But, if you are giving off the friends vibe, ask the last one who told you that you did how you could change it. If girls are thinking of you as a friend, maybe you should up the "romantic" side of dating?
  • There is someone out there for everyone and don't be discouraged. My current boyfriend thought that he'd never get a girlfriend and he actually didn't want to ask me out because he thought I was too pretty to want him. At that time, I didn't see him as anything more than just a possible friend with similar interests. Once we got to talking as friends and he felt more comfortable and confident in himself, I did find him to be extremely attractive. We've been going out for almost a year now and still going strong.
  • You are 20...that's the main reason why you should keep looking! You are very young, and you are only now reaching the age of maturity - you are only beginning your life NOW! I had boyfriends before I was 20, but I met mr.Right now...and im 22! So dont stop trying!
  • You said it in the first part of your question. You are only 20. You have your whole life ahead of you. Not to put you down, but you are still a kid & you have to figure out what YOU want out of life. I do not advise getting into a serious relationship @ 20 because you are still changing & so are the girls you are after. get your head straight & make sure that you are able to stand on your own 2 feet before looking to settle down. If you are in college, MAKE SOME FRIENDS!! The let's be friends line is another way of saying not interested. When you find that right girl you will know. Partners should compliment each other, not complete other. You should both be strong & independent with or without each other. Also, if you are giving off the "needy" or "clingy" vibe, that will make a girl run FAST!!! Good luck. FYI...MOST (mot all) people aren't ready for marriage until 30 anyway. by that time, you should know who you are, what you want, & how to get it. :)
  • because when you find someone, you'll look back on this question and think you were so stupid to think in such a negative way!! keep looking!
  • You know, I always find things the minute I stopping looking for it >< Relax and have fun with your friends, it's liberating XD
  • I didnt have my first boyfriend until I was 20.. &after years of me thinking I would never have a boyfriend I just sort of believed it. I didnt try looking but I also didnt close myself off to it.. I just left it alone.. &then when I finally did find a boyfriend, I was grateful &surprised. I wouldnt give up &stop looking, maybe just take it easy &go with the flow of things. What im saying is, Don't let the issue take over your life, but dont give up on it fully.
  • Don't worry!!!! This will all work out. I am a 40 something female with lots of dating experience and unfortunately lots of guys don't know how to pursue a woman. Do you have a male friend who is sucessful? Have him tell you what he does. Also, most guys really need a makeover. We women spend tons of time on our looks...I have no idea what you look like but most men could use a little help. Ask a stylish woman how you can improve your appearance. Clothing, hair, and mannerisms can make or break a guy. Don't worry about the gym...you can be transformed in a day with some good style advice. Start there...then you'll feel more confident and act more confident...get a little guy advice on how to appraoch women and you'll be good to go. You may be making obvious mistakes....being too needy maybe...who knows, but get advice!
  • For every backside, there is a seat. Just concentrate on your education and when you least expect it, you may just land a terrific woman who wants to take it beyond "friends".
  • Life is rough. Definitely keep at it. Every time you get rejected it only makes you stronger. learn from your mistakes and improve your game. You can do this. I know you can.
  • Because as a heterosexual, dude bits don't float the boat.

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