Liking anal sex has nothing to do with being gay. Many, but not all, gay men practice anal sex because neither of them has a vagina. But being gay is in the mind, not the genitals: if a man is turned on by men he is gay, by women he is straight. Anal sex can put pressure on the prostate gland, which can be pleasing. Your attitude if "OK for a change" us perfectly healthy, and not particularly gay. Though, on the other hand, what does it matter if you are a bit gay? What matters at any time is the partner of the moment: if you are both content with what you are doing with each other, why does it matter what the label is?

Even if it means that, you should be cool with it *g* and I don't think it means you're gay, because you liked it from a girl.

no it doesnt mean your gay, it just means that you like your fiance giving you anal. its not a big a deal. your only gay if you want to have sex and are sexually attracted to men, and your not, are you.

not at all, it is only natural to enjoy it as you have the same type of nerve endings around your anus as a girl has... so what should be the difference, if she enjoys it then so could you... also men have the added bonus of being able to stimulate the prostrate anally which is mind blowing !!!!! if done properly ... just be careful that you don't damage the prostrate tho'.. enjoy it as it is a treasured experience between you and your gf

Not gay at all. I experimented with gay sex from 1980-1987. I had alot of fun. I thoroughly enjoyed sucking another man's stiff penis or having a man screw me. I changed back to a heterosexual lifestyle in 1987 because I desired the emotional attachment that I find with women but did not find with men. I was completely open and honest with my girlfriend when we were courting. She has always liked vibrators and dildoes, and now wants to find a vibrating strapon dildo to use while having sex. You are lucky to have a girlfriend who has an open mind. Enjoy the strapon sex and count yourself as one of the lucky few. I do.

I don't think you realize how lucky you are man.. my girlfriend hates the idea of anal and doesn't want to go anywhere near the idea of it even. I love her, adore her and wait on her hand and foot every moment I have free, and we have a spectacular relationship apart from the fact that she never wants anything to do with that particular act that I so desire. And if she wanted to do it to me first to make her feel more comfortable with the idea then I would welcome this and probably enjoy even the idea of her considering anything that might, possibly lead up to her simply feeling more comfortable with what I really want to do. Now, if she suggested this and you actually enjoyed it, more power to you! If you have thoughts about men then you're probably gay or bi (which is also of course fine), but if not, then you are not gay but simply incredibly lucky to have a woman open to such acts with you!!! (especially if you enjoy BOTH giving to her AND recieving from her!!!!) So, either appreciate being the mind-blowingly lucky individual that you are to have such a fiance or accept the fact that you're gay or bi, if you are. Either way you win!! btw- I'm sure many, many men would love to be in the situation that you're in.....

I was a bit confused. You said fiance. I thought you were gay from that as you are a guy and fiance is a guy as well. The word you were seeking was fiancee which is the woman and future bride. However both are pronounced the same. Only gay if you do it with another guy. Well, I gay but don't do anal. I prefer other things. So don't limit the definition of gay as two guys doing anal. Might come as a surprise too, I know quite a few gays that are not sexually active. Even a few that never have Lots of stereotyping. Just because a guy is gay doesn't mean they rush into sex.

You need to watch "young people fucking" It's on Watch-movies.net I think...it's got a segment on that...and no your not gay unless you perfer men to women. do you like some pussy or not? lol but yeah check out that movie on that site you don't have to DL anything...

You are confusing with consentual heterosexual behaviour with stereotypical homosexual behaviour. If your male penis is entering a female ass, where's the gayness? I won't even go into the fact that many gays do not have and have not had anal sex. Read a more complete response on my blog: http://mflife.wordpress.com/2006/10/12/anal-sex-101/

Yes- OMG YES YOU ARE OFFICIALLY termed, judged, ordained and coronated as a true homosexual and a " gay person ". So what are your plans for the future as you embrace this, obviously by the question, you must be planning a coming out party, possible relocation and total change in life plans. Please tell ,,have you met any guys yet ? Any big plans do you have in mind ? I would love to hear,I'm gay too so I am not homophobic ofcourse I just wanted to welcome you to the club. If you show me the secret handshake I can send you directions to our next conference to attend what many believe is our agenda for world domination. Have you already found yourself immersed in working out, and exploring really good skin care and using Kiehl's products ? Newsflash - If your fiance and you explored and had anal sex that was all that was, no supreme deity of gay power was present to indoctrinate you as a gay person. Unfortunately the ass patent was denied by our leaders. Now I get what my str8 girlfriends are talking about all the time when they are complaining about you guys.

no your not gay, its just sex fun between a couple ok, so go enjoy and be safe ok. john

It doesnt mean your gay ... its just you and you gf ... so how can it be gay ? if she wants to you should let her do it to you or you might never get to do her ass.... and anyhow you should enjoiy it the most as it will massage you P spot !!

No it doesn't mean your gay. Just means you like taking it up the butt.