Why can the majority of men have meaningless sex and women unable to do that?
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maggie_49417
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They do because they really don't get anything out of it. If women aren't careful, they could end up with a baby which, to a woman, is an amazing experience!
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Women are unable to have meaningless sex cause women are complex human beings. They a much higher level of thoughts and always have feelings involved... At least most women have feelings. Normally women dont and wont have sex unless feelings are involved
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because sex is sex is sex and its not making love and when females can tell the difference they will learn to enjoy them selves and its far from 'meaningless' sex its physical sex ...uninhibitated sex and sometimes its far more enjoyable because its just sex without all the "emotional' baggage that females drag into it ...oh and trust me over the years I have known many many females who really love to have sex for what it is sex ! so don't think males are the only ones who enjoy the freedom it brings
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I think anyone can have 'meaningless' sex, and it really doesn't matter whether or not they're male or female. It's not really a gender-based thing, but has a lot more to do with a person's psyche when it comes to romance. However, I can understand why you or anyone else would think that. There are a lot of double-standards in our society, that say if a man gets too attached to a woman, he's 'whipped,' or if a woman has casual relationships, she's 'slutty.' *shrug* I think it's unfair to assume that casual sex is meaningless. It always has meaning, if only to culminate in pleasure. And so long as it's between two consenting adults, we have no right to judge.
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There is such a bias in the way this question is written, that the people that can answer it...don't want to. Look obviously you had sex with some guy and it didn't mean the same thing to him that it meant to you. I'm sorry, but that happens to BOTH men and women. I disagree completely with the implication that sex with out a relationship is "meaningless" obviously you believe that sex must always be accompanied by a relationship and maybe for you that is best obviously you are looking for an honest, loyal, man who also happens to be good in bed.....good luck with that..... I suggest a great deal of conversation with the next guy before ripping each others cloths off and it sounds like you’d enjoy dating serious Bible thumpers so you might want to stay with the fish in that pool. but as for the rest of us who are out there dating regular men there is NOTHING wrong with seeing someone you think LOOKS completely delicious and fucking his brains out. Just because you felt like having a good ride on his over sized appendage doesn’t mean you have to marry it.
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As a woman I always found it way better and less inhibiting and freeing if emmotions were involved and I fully knew and trusted the person then if it was just "sex". After all the most important sex organ is the brain and not what's between your legs. And for the brain to be fully engaged you need the emmotional side. I think it's wrong to say that all men enjoy meaningless sex. After awhile even that gets old and when they do find a person they can love and respect they find that sex with emmotions is way better then the meaningless kind. They find the same inhabition and freedom that I do. Unfortuantly we've raised a whole generation of men who see women as sex objects and not people and that having emmotions for your sex partner means you're whipped. Then we fill their minds with porn and strippers to cement that idea. Women have not be taught that, but they have been taught that if you want a guy to like you you have to get on your back. What we don't tell them is he's just going to take off when's had his fill because he never came to respect you. Neither of these things is right or healthy for either person.
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It all depends on the person.. I have hooked up for just sex more then once in my life with a woman that is looking or the same thing.
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That is just a false media thing. I know of many men who can't have meaningless sex and get attached to women were actually doing such that. I've seen the reverse as well.
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This isn't always true but it very often is. Women have sex to feel an emotional connection and men have emotional connections to get sex. In my opinion the best men and the best sex come with a deep emotional connection but in general, men have casual sex because it feels good. Period.
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Men want casual sex?? every where you go women are walking around with the girls hanging out. Walk with the thong sticking out and if I look you get pissed but you really want us to look or you would not dress like that. I'll take the clothes off in the bed room. I dont want to see your T and A walking down the street. I will have casual sex with a woman but that is not what I want, but if that is all you have to offer I'll take it. Why do you want that kind of attention. Keep the puppies covered and act like a lady. Not some Hilton tramp with no underwear
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I agree that there is - or should be - no such thing as 'meaningless sex.' You don't need to be in love but for me at least - a male - sex without some emotional connection and openness is a sorry affair. Sex between friends, holiday romances, short-lived/transitional affairs - these are meaningful in their way, and oftentimes necessary if one is not prepared for anything more heavy-duty. It's the people not the bodies that count.
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I agree that there is - or should be - no such thing as 'meaningless sex.' You don't need to be in love but for me at least - a male - sex without some emotional connection and openness is a sorry affair. Sex between friends, holiday romances, short-lived/transitional affairs - these are meaningful in their way, and oftentimes necessary if one is not prepared for anything more heavy-duty. It's the people not the bodies that count.
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I beg to differ. Women can too. I have had two casual sex situations in my life and both were initiated by the women. I banged one for over a year and the other one for a few months. They were the ones who set the ground rules and told me that all they wanted was sex every now and again. I was surprised, but I'm also a guy, so a woman offering me sex with no strings attached and I don't have to call her the next day? I thought I had won the lotto! Trust me, more women can do it than you think.
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