Well that all depends on several factors. How old you are. Do you really understand what it means to be inlove. How long have you been with this guy. Is he your first b/f. If you have been with this guy a considerable amount of time and he is not your first boyfriend (considerable being at least 1-2 years) it is very possible you are inlove with him especially if you are willing to forgive him for cheating on you. However this is my concern. Saying you forgive him and forgiving him are 2 different things. In order to truly forgive it means that you also forget it ever happened as well as give up any right to revenge or throwing it back in his face whenever you have a fight. It also means that you trust him completely. When a trust like that has been broken it is almost impossible to truly forgive the cheater. There is always those doubts in the back of your mind as to whether he is telling the truth in his explainations oif why he was late comiong home or where he was and why he didn't answer your 15 phone calls. If yoiu in your heart feel you satill love this guy and you can truly forgive him and trust him 100% then I say go for it and try to work this out. If however you don't feel you can trust him completely it is better to break up now and spare both of you alot of future heartache and pain.

You very well CAN be in love. 10 year olds can be in love, and no one can argue otherwise. He apparently is not convinced about himself yet. This is a hard choice. I personally wouldn't put up with that. There are plenty of fish in the sea, so they say, and I wouldn't want to be stuck with a dogfish.

Oh, first let me give you a hug. {{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}} This is only Monday, and this is so fresh to you. Of course you don't know what to do. The important thing right now is to let yourself grieve the betrayal, and be honest with yourself about how you feel. It might be wise to stay away from him for a few days while you think. Your emotions are going to take you on a roller-coaster, and you need to decide how YOU want to proceed, THEN take his wishes into consideration if they still matter to you. I wish you the best.

girl let me tell you something i got a friend friend called nene and he played me like a fool to oh and hey im new at this!! hi my name is dayana but anyways he told me that he loved me but at the end he played me and when he's new girl friend told me that i was crying for like about 2 day's like i really did loved him and i knew him for like about 3 year's and i dont know why he would played me but people just has to move on like me and hey i got a new boo now lolsz mami like im trying to say to you move on you can do better g/l

Honey, you are not a fool! You wanker boyfriend however is! He cheated on you and broke the trust - so it's time to dump his ass and find someone who is going to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. If he really loved you, he wouldn't have cheated on you. It's not your fault, he's just a loser! Move on, there's plenty more fish in the sea - you're only on this earth for a certain amount of time, ebjoy every moment, and don't waste your precious time on people like him!

well if you want to be with him then you should be with him. Next time just keep your eyes open. Personally I wouldn't want to stay with a guy that cheated on me.

Just because you love him doesn't mean you should accept that kind of behavior. You are not a fool...he was. It sure would be hard to trust someone not to do that again. I couldn't but the ball is in your court now...you decide if he's worth your trust. Good Luck!

I know this might seem kind of hard to hear, but you probably are in love. You also probably should leave him. I am a firm believer in "Once a cheater, always a cheater." and I think that even if you do love him, you should kick him to the curb if you don't want to deal with that pain again. Trust me it will REALLY hurt you in the end if you stay with him. I had someone give me this same advice when my boyfriend of two years cheated on me, but I stayed with him anyways. He cheated on me again a few months later, and I have not trusted a single guy since then.

well i dont think that you beeing in love with him is bad. but think about this he might not love you because he cheated on you!

Would he cheat on you if he was really concerned about keeping you? or about your happiness? or if he was really in love with you? You are a special girl and you are worthy of anyone. You are better than that. You deserve to be treated like a princess. You deserve someone who feels about you the way you feel about him. Actions speak louder than words. He may say he loves you but his actions are telling you that you mean nothing to him.