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  • You may not want to betray either of your friends but quite honestly..if friend 2 would do that to friend 1..what could friend 2 potentially do to you behind your back. Doesn't sound like a very good friend to me. I would definately tell friend 1..because not only will it hurt her emotionally (not only to find out but then to find out that you knew and didn't tell her) but it could also potentially endanger her if they are all having unprotected sex.
  • You should talk to the second friend and tell them that you are unhappy with how they are behaving. Ask them to either come clean with friend 1 or to stop sleeping with this guy. The guy will carry on having sex with both girls for as long as he can so I wouldn't rely on him coming clean. Both these girls would be better off without the guy if he is like this, but that's up to them to find that out. If your friend refuses to talk to the other girl or end the relationship, then tell her you will tell. Give her a time limit to tell, say a few days and if she doesn't do anything by then that you will. If they don't then tactfully tell your 1st friend that she is too good a friend for you to watch her be made a full of. She may be angry and lash out at you at first, but she will appreciate it in the long run.

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