why mess around with a married man? there are tons of us who are single. =P

keep your fingers crossed his ole lady dont find out or you'll be using the sevices of a hospital or morgue....

na baby, not me... (BLUE EYES ) she got the wrong one, cuz in that case and that wont be me, i aint gonna fight her over her man, I dont even want him so i aint worried about it,..

yes you should feel real bad, think of it as if your man was cheatin on you with another woman. lady karma gona get back at you with avengence. but thats nothing comparred to what might happen to you if his girl finds out.

Wow, it must feel pretty nice to be dating someone's young husband and contributing to ruining whatever hope he might have to save his marriage. Wonderful. Why don't you leave the boy alone? How shameful.

Mess around with me instead! Problem solved.

I just worry that what you do onto others will come back to you. How would you feel if you really loved your husband and someone was sleeping with him. Ps Buy your own things you will feel a sense of accomplishment when you do!

You sound like you are proud of yourself! Does sleeping with someone else's husband make you feel good? You should be ashamed of yourself. Get yourself some self-esteem and lose him.

He's the one that is cheating so... But, you know, you aren't just using him. He's using you too. So, if you don't mind feeling like a whore...

Well as a man who has been cheated on i have to say that "cheating" is the worse form of disrespect you can show someone. Think about ir like this...if he is willing to be with you while he is married then he is probably doing the same to you.A friend with benefits is an excuse...you are contributing to the failure of their relationship. You should stop it now and move on. Being with him only shows the tyoe of values you have and maybe you should stop looking for guys and start fixing yourself.

what your doing is extremly worng! you should feel terrible for using him. i hope that the guy smartens up as well as you. either be exlusive or nothing at all but friends with no benifits. your gonna break a girls heart

Have some self respect..

Sorry but I think maybe he's using YOU. Find a single guy.

You are totally wrong. Being slutty to get gifts and you have to give up your body for it. He has no respect for you and you have no self respect. Married men are off lemit. If you do this when you finally fall in love and get married you will have the same thing happen to you. What goes around does come around. I am 56 and have learned this throughout the years, but I would never cheat with a married man. You are so wrong and I hope that you think about what you are doing. Please stop and find a single man.

Why don't you get a job,rather than depend on some dirt-bag to buy you things?

You should feel bad for helping him break his wife's heart. I can't stand goldigging women that prey the other things that people have. You're a selfish individual, go get your own man, and when he does the same to you remember this "what goes around comes around, karma is a bitch..." Downrate this post all day if you want, I ve seen what a sloot like you does to a family, to kids, to extended family, you are one sad, sick and pathetic person. Have a great day.

u should know better than that imagine if u were in her shoes and look out for urself u my end up getting hurt

He is using you, why not use him?

Both you and him are fools. You are creating misery and trouble. Get away from him. Think of the wife. How would she feel? Would you want that for yourself? You might think that if it feels good then it is all right, but one day the wife might suddenly figure out what she has to do to make herself feel all right, after she has discovered the real reason her husband, who promised to love and support her, has lied and given his money ( = labour and TIME ) and well as his body and energy to a woman to which he made no such promise. How would you feel if you had a husband that was too tired for you or 'not in the mood'? How would you feel if your husband was working long hours but there still wasn't enough money for the basics - because it was all being spent on the "bit on the side"? Get away from this evil, understand what is really happening here, and understand that you really are creating trouble but getting absolutely nothing in return. There are plenty of good, single, lonely men out there that would give you more than you could ask for. You just have to learn how to properly identify them. "Forbidden fruit" doesn't equate to "hard to get" and neither equates to "worth having". The sooner you understand this, the better. You have been betrayed by your own lust / desire / foolishness (for want of a better word), you have created misery and a potential for much greater stress and misery. Get away and hope it is not too late.

Come on, You should feel bad, you need to give back everything like rings, bouquets, anything material. You are a friend with benefits. "basically a sex toy taking the shaft", If you want to earn a reputation like that. Then by all means, go for it. Not very many good men will marry a person like you. If you want a good man, take a good look in the mirror, If you cannot look yourself. Then there is a problem. Next find a solution. Cannot find it no where, okay, kneel down, at the bed, Pray for the bad deed to be removed from your mind. You will destroy the family for sure. You will have to live with the label as a destroyer. I would not want to do that. Please, find a single man for heaven's sake. There are more single men out there than you think. Here you go, Copy and paste these links in your browswer to learn more about your deeds. 1. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m42KnJoZLz0 2. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMFqgd67PzY&feature=related 3. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0HFEqj_wJtY&feature=related I hope this helps out. Cheating is not the answer to problems. what if you got pregnant, You put child support on him. Then his wife is going to find out. She check mail and will probable get some legal letter in the mail from court or a lawyer. Then the family will crumble. Are you going to smile after the initial destruction? Think about what I am saying here.

Wanted to say "Shame on you" but the fact that you have to ask if you should feel bad already tells me that you have no shame. you will get your just deserve in time, my only hope is that there are no kids in his marraige who have to suffer because "Daddy" is spending his money on a kept woman.

Playing with fire and people are going to get hurt.

If you had morals and a conscience, yes you would feel bad.

Since you don't seem to mind wrecking a marriage, I don't see how you would wonder about feeling bad about using someone. After all, what's a sense of decency these days when you could be busy destroying people's lives, right? You are too immature and selfish to understand this, but one day things like this will come back to haunt you. Big time.