You might be able to annul the marriage since so little time has passed. If not then divorce. Either way get a lawyer who can discuss with you your legal choices in this matter. There is more to this than just the legal end. There is also your emotional well being which I want to focus on here. This time wait more than two months before getting into a relationship - I don't care how perfect the man may appear - you need a 6 to 12 month "cool down" period between relationships. Dating is fine, even sex (as long as it is protected) as long as you make a clear distinction that you are not getting into a relationship for X period of time. If you know you can not date or have sex without it becoming more it is perfectly fine to wait a year. Some "me time" is most likely what you need the most. too many of us get into a habit of being part of a couple - we feel like we are not "perfect" when alone. The truth is that many of us need to be single for a period of time to discover who we are, to know what our personal needs are and to form some ideas of what we desire and need in a relationship for that relationship to work. Also you might want to enter into some therapy. Figure out what it is you pick 'winners', perhaps deal with the baggage you collected from the two failed marriages and work on finding Mr.-Right-enough-to-where-I-can-live-with-him-without-being-hurt (all the time). 3 years of "dating" and going steady is perfectly fine and normal. A year is really too soon to rush into marriage, especially after one or two others. 3 years of constant companionship will tell if you too are compatible enough to live together. 3 years also will bring out the best and the worst in the partners.