He's probably been out with girls before who have had a problem with it, and now assumes that all women do- he could well be lying to you for fear of upsetting you. If you think this is the case wait for a suitably sexy moment and suggest that he gets some of his porn out and you can have a bit of fun together with it, rather than just quizzing him, which will put him on his guard. Alternatively, porn may be a private pleasure for him, something he likes to indulge in on his own now and then, a bit like guys like to go fishing or drinking on their own now and then. Its just a personal space thing- you may just have to respect that. If you really want to do something together then try making your own porn, or reading each other erotic stories where he can picture you in the starring role, rather than invading his private boys' own "porn world" Perhaps he doesn't really want to connect you (his girlfriend, who he respects) with porn stars (who maybe he doesn't.) Some guys still have an old fashioned view that a girlfriend (or wife) is something to be kept pure, whereas porn is there to indulge his seedier side. Its likely not because he sees you as inadequate, but quite the opposite, he doesn't want to involve you something which he sees as a dirty necessity. Weird, yes, but I have known guys like this.

Another option is to get some porn of your own. It may be easier to broach the subject with him that way. If you have some porn and let him 'accidentally' find it then he will confront (not the right word choice, but I can't remember the word I want) you and you can then suggest you watch it together. You can even admit you haven't watched it and wanted to watch it first with him, as that turns you on. The warning I would give for that, though, is you must make sure you won't be shocked by any of the sexual acts as that will embarass him and make him close up again. Getting him to be confident in using porn as something for botrh of you will take time, and you will have to lead him carefully for a while, but you can learn new positions and ideas and hopefully come away with a much more fulfilling and fulfilled relationship. Good luck.

If you have a tv and player in your room, rent some of your own, and put them in when you two go to bed. Tell him, that this really turns you on. If his response is negative, then I would ask him to lose the computer, or you. Good luck hon!

How would you feel if your boyfriend insisted on you doing something (I don't know -- sex with seven dwarves) that you didn't feel comfortable with? I'm not surprised that he doesn't feel too proud about jacking off to internet filth, and that he's none too keen about sharing that side of his life with you. Even though he's your boyfriend, he still has a right to privacy. If you want to watch porn with your boyfriend, bring your own porn. I think it depends on how much he's using porn in your relationship. Is it occasional (that's normal), or does he stay up every night to peruse it for hours on end (could be an addiction)?

just tell him that its ok with u and its not a big deal he will understand it i guess :)

Alright... I am a guy, and I don't understand why it weirds you out. I suggest you explain it to him. Also BTW if you were my girlfriend I would not want to watch it with you, because I would rather watch you. Maybe he feels the same way.

Bring him into the bedroom one night, dressed sexy, and hit play on an adult DVD that you've recently purchased. If he doesn't get the idea, and react positively to that, he's probably got an unhealthy problem with porn. Just my opinion based on what you said... I obviously don't know him.

Guys hide porn for 2 reasons: 1) They want to jerk off to it to satisfy themselves when they are feeling a bit randy, and 2) Because they feel slightly ashamed of it due to their upbringing or societal norms. The easiest way to watch it with him is to download some yourself and ask him to watch it with you. Or also you could put some on and then have sex while it goes on in the background. The point here is to make him comfortable with it and to ensure him that you do not mind it. Just saying you don't mind it is not enough --- you need to demonstrate it.

men in stable relationships still look at porn...it is ok.........take care.....Brian...