What do you think the cause of all domestic arguments is? The fact that each side wants to be right or what?
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Money and not listening.
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Lack of communication. Lack of coummnication in the bedroom On being open minded about the argument Listening to just your needs and not your spouse
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THe women! No, seriously, often arguments seem to be about one thing and stem from another, especially when dealing with women. Usually a man will be direct with things, for example, " I don't want to go to your mothers for dinner tonight." He just rather stay home and watch the ballgame,or whatever. A woman will take that as he doesn't appreciate all that her parents are doing for them, he is insensitive, or he is cheating on her. On the flip side, a woman will be mad about not getting enough attention from her husband and it will manifest as, " I asked you to take the trash out an hour ago, why can't you just help out around here!" Men have to learn to decipher code to understand what her issues are then fix the problem. That's my take anyway.
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females !! sorry but thats it in a nut shell, they expect us males to think like females and just stop being males altogether ...hang our balls on the back of the door when we are married or in a relationship with them ... don't believe me .... example : the ladies/girls love us to bits and are attracted to us for who and what we are in the beginning .... BUT as soon as we are in a relationship with them they MUST change us ... can not help them selves ... p.s. ok some ladies don't do this but they are as rare as hens teeth p.p.s. watch them bite !....lol
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Pride, no-one wants to back down or admit one was in the wrong, therefore its a viscious circle, once one backs down for the sake of peace, it then becomes pointless in continuing the argument.
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Honestly I don't know. I guess at the moment that would be the main reason. However after the argument is over and I have had time to think about it I usually realize that as long as we are still angry at each other nobody is the winner. Also I usually tend to see my partners point of view a little more clearly once things have calmed down a bit.
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I think that the cause of the arguments are usually something other than the topic of the argument. Maybe some suppressed anger towards a co-worker or another person that they can do nothing about. The only person they can express some frustration to is their mate and it sometimes turns into an argument regarding an unrelated topic.
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Everyone argues at one time or another.. everyone. It's knowing when and HOW to stop that counts. Don't just walk out, or clam up--stop yelling and start talking AND listening.
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I think the root cause of most domestic arguments are miscommunication. Not really understanding each others wants and needs leads to a lot of frustration and stress which overheats causing conflict.
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Events happened long time ago get deep-seated in a partner, and prejudices based on those, keep influencing the person concerned's behaviour towards her/his partner, causing friction in mutual relations.
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Different opinions, different needs. apathy, taking each other for granted, money, kids, churches, pastors, friends....
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First, if there are "different sides" in the relationship, instaed of working toward mutual goals, the arguments are common. Second, that one of the parties is trying to overpower the other, and the other is not submissive. Third, that the couple do not feel happy together. And,.... there are a lot of reasons.
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I can only answer for my domestic relationship. Many women don't want solutions to problems, but just to be listened to, to be heard. While many men want to solve the problem. It's the age old problem, poor communication. Sometimes it's that either side is being plain stubborn about being right, but not always. Now in same sex couples, it may be different. Most of time, it comes down to just wanting to be taken seriously, and for the other one to really listen and not just find fault with what the other one is saying.
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not being able to compremise
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