My boyfriend wants me to talk dirty during sex, it turns him on but i never know what to say im afraid our sex life is going to get boring if i dont start. . . what do i say during sex?

God I LOVE dirty talk during sex. I always seem to talk dirty even if I don't mean it. Everyone is different but I enjoy telling him how good he feels and how I want to do this or that to him. The secret is to listen to the noises he makes as you tell him stuff (bit like sex really) and when you find something he likes (e.g "God your **** feels so good riding me") then play on it and go around that kind of road. Hope it helps xx

Talking dirty during sex is the best part - on both sides - tell how good his hard cock feels while you ride him hard and let it grow from there...Tell him where you want him to touch you - but make it nice and erotic..pull my nipples hard baby...

I had problems getting into dirty talking aswell. After a lot of research and practice ;) i've found that easing into helps. Try starting out by reading an erotic story to him. That way you can find out what he likes to hear by studying his response to what you are reading. This also helps as the more you read the more ideas you'll have for yourself when you go to get started. one resource i found helped ALOT was this:
http://www.how-to-talk-dirty-to-my-boyfriend.com
I was pretty much an expert after getting through that book!

Ive always been a very sexual girl, but it is weird because sometimes I get shy around my lover. This generally happens when I start to develop deep feelings because I am afraid of doing something stupid. With no feelings attached, I am a freak and go with my freakish flow. I know that guys like when you tell them what to do. I get off on being in control because it really turns him on when I tell him what to do, which makes me want him harder. Lick my p****! smack my a**! Eat my a**! F*** my a**, or F*** my p****. Honestly say what you want to have done to you and they will eat it up, no pun intended. I know that I like when he says suck my c*** biotch. I like him to know that I am his little slut/biotch/w****. Guys love to hear that you are their slut, especially if they really like you and arent too conservative.

It's perfectly natural for him to want you to talk dirty during sex. Start out small until you feel more comfortable. Tell him in words what you want like if you want him to kiss you in a certain spot or use his tongue in a certain way. Ask him things like "Do like that? Does that feel good baby?" If you can't think of something very creative, start by describing what you are going to do to him like when you're taking off his pants say "I'm going to suck that big hard C*** and feel it in my mouth" If you get stuck for something to say then turn it around on him and say "tell me what you want me to do to you." Remember, you do not have to talk dirty the whole time!! Just interject something once in a while and fill in the gaps with moaning and oh yah's and oh my god's and yes's and I like that's. It's not so bad once you get into it. And when he's talking about sharing you, he is probably playing into what he thinks you want to hear. A lot of women fantasize about being with more than one man and he is probably just trying to say things to get you going. Go with it, let loose, and let your imagination fly! It doesn't mean he's bored and it doesn't mean your bored. It just means he's curious and mixing it up is fun and healthy.

Tell him you can't wait to give him the filthiest night of his life

Tell him you're gonna make him cum until he screams

Ask him what he wants "do you want me to...." (fill in)

Tell him what you want "I love it when you..." (fill in)

Try verbalizing what you're doing, or thinking of doing..."do you like it when I...?" or "would you like me to...?"

If that's not enough...email me. I'll hook you up an you'll rock his world.

girl u gotta talk dirty 2 him ,he'll like it so much and i promise u he will get so rock hard that youll think someone else is in you..i got my wife to do this and we both benefited from it..tell him u want some putty in your face and or some1 (man or woman)to help u get him off or get u off,askk him what he'd do to another woman.or what he'd want u 2 do to them ,,,trust me on this wow!!!!!!!!!!i'm gettn chubbed just by typing this....best foreplay ever

Don't be nervous, everyone's scared of new things at first, but he's your boyfriend and he cares for you so he'll definitely love that you're willing to add new things just for him (and it'll drive him crazy).

Here are some things that drive me crazy personally, if you're looking for ideas:

-during foreplay, tell him specifically how bad you want him. For example, "I want to wrap my lips around your cock right now baby, I want to slide my tongue up and down your shaft," or simply "I want your cock in me so bad right now." Even hotter is when it's in public and he can't do anything, so you just tease him with a "I'm so wet right now..."
-during sex, when riding him, just lean down and breathe something sexy softly in his ear, something like "I want to cum so bad right now," or "Mmm that feels so damn good..."

Yeah that was weird actually typing that out, but I wanted to be more helpful than just saying "be confident." Hope that helped.

Read some online erotic stories. They all have dirty talk in them. Find some things you'd like to say and try it out on him.

FYI - don't go straight to the hard stuff. Start slow and build up. My wife one day out of the blue started talking real dirty and it bothered me a little because there was no lead up.

omg people, men like to hear how they are doing and if its okay with you. To start off with just tell him slower, faster that kind of thing. Men are very visual and to top it off is to hear how you feel. If you are keeping in your head silently how you feel then just say it out loud. That is really all he is asking you for.

Should have waited till you were married and found out then

SIMPLE: Whisper into his ears, the movie in your mind, and do not be scientific. USE words, c**k, c**t and whatever.Tell him how good , whatever the act. put feelings in your wors, and plead, f**k me hard, deep or I want to suck your c**k . Just whisper with ezaggeration and emotion. The surprise:
YOU WILL FIND THE HEAT RISING IN YOU AS WELL.

Rozi, I'm sure that if you don't talk dirty to you man, sex wont get boring, cause he's still havin sex with you. Okay feel me! You know what to say. Think about it for a minute. Think about how he makes you feel durin' sex. Think about what you want to do to him or him to you. R u thinkin? Hope so! Okay now take those feelings and you say them. Tell him, baby you make me so horney for you,if he's eatin you tell him how he's makin you feel,like ooh daddy eat my pussy, lick my clit like that,Oh your'e makin me so wet(of course I hope that this is what your feelin)keep doin that please baby,n don't stop. Tell him that he's makin you so horney that you're gonna cum in his mouth. Stuff like that. You must like to have sex with him, so tell whim what you like. Tell him that you love to suck on his hard cock and can't wait for him to put it in your hot wet juicey pussy. Just say what you feel, that's what he want's to hear. You don't have to be too dirty at first, just let him know that he's doin' it for you and you like what he's doin. As a man i find that when a woman expresses her feelin'durin sex it lets me know that I am makin her feel as good as she is makin me feel. If there's no vocal expression of your feelin's we don't think that we are performing to our best for you. It's a turn on to hear that your enjoyin whats goin on. Please Rozi, give it a try at least once and see the reaction you get. I promise you will be amazed at what you will do to and for him

Let him take you from behind and then tell him to fuck you like a whore. as he cant see your face you wont need to feel embarassed. and it'll hve him begging for more believe me!! My bf lasted about 2 more minutes after that and the next night when we got into bed he was gagging for it. He told me he'd been thinking about what i said all day and was on the verge of having to, well, you know, in the loo!!

tell him how you are felling. when he is riding you, describe how good does it feel. when he is sucking on your nipples, tell him how crazy this drives you,,,etc. Don't lie if you don't like it.

i get uncomfortable with dirty talk to but what i did is just go with the flow. say things about their performance that boost their ego.

I have a similiar problem. Me and my partner have really good sex and we try all kinds of positions and differnt things but for some reason I can't open up and talk dirty to him. He wants me to tell him what I want and that kind of thing. I just get embarrassed and there's no reason for it. I'm very comfortable with this man. Please help.

If he needs it to keep from having a boring sex life, there's something wrong with HIM. But if you really want to try, start with "harder!" or whatever, just telling him what you want him to do. See how that goes.

ow, ow, ow baby, that hurts, ow! but it feels good too!
harder harder harder!
omg dont stop, never stop
i could do this with you all night!

Right--those answers were good. It's OK to try to sound like he is driving you nuts. But it really will give him a lot of pleasure! It may seem like an act at first, but you may be surprised that it heightens your arousal.
Growl sometimes when you talk, practice it a little. That's part of vocalizing while you fuck. Between your talk, your man may like you to moan a certain way. Holding him close and talking with him about what sounds and moans to try may seem silly, but it can be a bond between you.

Put some moan in your voice like you're struggling to speak while making love. A classic is "You make me so wet," "Am I wet enough?" "Am I deep enough for your cock?" Going over these thoughts in your mind now and then should help.

Moan when you say "I love your cock inside me." "My pussy/vagina/hole etc. is so hungry for you cock."
"I love to squeeze and suck your cock with my wet pussy, do you like how I tighten on you?" Some people like words like "vagina" or "penis" in sex, but not everyone finds these words sexy. It's kind of a difference of taste. Vagina and penis are the innocent, vanilla words. But they can be sexy if they represent your feelings of intimacy, or tenderness, or pretending like it's a "first time." Not every couple would enjoy this.

How can a christian talk dirty when she doesn't use dirty words ?

My response to all of you is that talk dirty during sex is not good, because it stop a woman from enjoying the touch and the rubbing of the penis inside her, that's why so many women cannot have an orgasm because the men want is to please them.
A man should satisfy a women by caressing the hair, the entire body instead of just lying down and expect the women to do all the jobs.

Men should worship a women not just want to fuck.

start off by describing in detail everything that is happening (ie what he is doing to you and what you are doing to him)...it'll flow from there.

Well all men love it!!lol

Coming straight to the answer, say the following but not like a kindergarten teacher rather a wild lioness ready to eat!!lol

YeahHHHHHHHHHH, nice HUNNNNNNNNNNNN!!

YAAAAAAAA YAAAAAAA YAAAAAAAA!!lol

Come on, fuck me , fuck me with that donkey dick!

OHHHHHh you are so huge( even if he has a birthday candle).

AA! ouuuuuuuuccHHH

wanna spank my booty, hun wana!!

Ya stud, just do it, make me whole!!!!!!!lol

UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bang my pussy!! eat meEEEEEEEEEboobs!!

Bite men hunk!!! OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!

What a tank you have got, ride me to heaven...............Put your huge gun , yaaaaa fire the shot!!!OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!lol


And when he is done, just say plainly, " is this all you've got???????????"

The look that will come on his face will be a historic one & of eternal dome and he'll never ask you to say dirty things !!!lol

You should maybe learn how to say things like " DO YOU WANT IT BABY?" in other languages. My bf and i are both non Americans. So when he wipers in my ear " MEKHOISH" (do u want it babe)
ITS definitely something you should try ;)
MEKHOYOM ( I want IT)
lol..in persian

Here's a few things he'll love to hear from you that will drive him absolutely crazy during sex:
1. I missed my last period.
2. I forgot to take my birth control. Did you just come inside me!
3. You're not as good as (insert name here) was last night.
4. Your breath stinks and you have a small dick.
5. What would you think if I told you I've been fantasizing about a black guy?
6. When we're done, can you run out and get me some new batteries for my vibrator?
7. I have diarrhea. You wanna do anal?
8. Are you finished yet?

well men love it when u say their name and say f**c me harder trust me it works

he wants me to talk dirty what do i say that will make him hard

I love my wife talking dirty during sex as well as role playing, I love when she tells me that my cock is too small to satisfy her and how she has a lover with a massive huge cock

My wife talks sex to me while we have sex. At first she would tell me how guys would grind their cocks into her pussy on the dance floor. After a few years she went off into fantacy. She started making up stories about me having sex with her girl friends. These had a lot of detaikl about their underware that she saw when they went cloths shopping.Then she started making up stories about me having sex with her co- workers. At the company christmas party she intraduced me to all of them. On story was so hot about me comming on his girl Sue's face that we arranged to meet her on Sunday afternoon at a resterant. Just to talk.After about a year of this she started making up stories about me having sex with the neighbers. After about a year of this she started making up stories about me with her cusons, then my cusons, then her cusons step mom. Usually the stories ended with me pulling out and coming on the girls belly, and then my wife wiping it up with the girls panties. Once we saw a black girl at the mall. My wife took me out to the parking lot and blew me in the car while telling a story about that girl blowing me.

When she started naking up stories about me dry humping the 15 year old baby sitter, I had to tell her that was a little too kinkey.

"I've never been with a MAN before-now I see what all the excitement's about"

Just go about it naturally. Start with small stuff like "oh that feels so good baby I love when you do that" Then if you feel like it, move to stuff like telling him you're a bad girl and need to be punished by having your pussy rammed with cock. Basically say what you feel when things get hot and filthy. And if you progress any further, you'll get into name calling (you know what I'm talking about). That one is a big step and I couldn't cross it for a long time but recently asked my bf to say things like that and I got wet as a river. He needs to respect your "verbal boundaries" once you set them. Role play or what is said during sex does not in any way reflect the state of the relationship or amount of respect he has for you. If he abides by your boundaries and is responsive to your needs (sexual and in general in the relationship), then you've got a good thing going.

personally i like it when women use foul language during sex in a soft commanding voice even when im on top and if they tell me im making them wet and id i can feel the evidence of that that does it for me too.

i also like it when women say things like oh yeah baby you f**k me so good and call my name after they say it or if after they moan moderately loud after that(not screaming but moaning in my ear when im on top softly) sincerely enjoying themselves and say yeah thats it keep f**king my P***y,and give that hard c**k i want you to c**me inside me always makes me horny when a girl says that even though im wearing a condom (which i always do by the way play safe people)because i can close my eyes and imagine that i can literally climax inside her and that im not wearing a condom.

although i know what ive described sounds like porn dialogue but thats what gets my motor running. i also like it when a woman tells me shes coming and to keep f**king heri also like when a girl tells me to do rough stuff like pull her hair during doggystyle its also hot to me ifa woman tells me she wants me to give it to her in the butt and actually mean it. ive never had a girl tell me to do that but its a fantasy of mine to do that to a girl.

i like when a woman also say in a commanding voice F**k me calls my name then says thats it F**ck my P***y . any one of these phrases work for some men and other sound too contrived for some men its all it what you say to him and how you say it to him.

the right tone and the right words will make him horny everytime.

what ever you do dont be shy about what your going to say in the midst of coital bliss. be confident in your ability to capture and personify his sexual fantasy of a wild woman by being brazen enoguh to use any of these phrases if he likes four letter words during sex. if he doesnt then find gentler words to say the same phrases with out using th curse words. also if your guy does get aroused by porn and porn dialogue then watch his favorit films with and listen to what the girls are saying during the scenes he likes best and later on talk to him when your not in a sexual situation about what the girls in his favorite porn scenes said that got him off the most let him know you just want to know what it turns him on to hear a woman say during sex and that you wont be judgemental if if he likes women using the f word alot when hes pounding them.

the key is to communicate because he may not be aware that talking dirty is something new to you and you want make sure you daont say anything that turns him off or distract him from what his doing to you in the midst of sex.

best of luck and i hope you can give your man tons to smile about.

If you cum I'll make you lick it clean out of my hole. I'm going to F*** your face after this.

if your boyfriend wants you to talk dirty to him, you can tell him everything you want him to do to you in detail (not so much the setting or anything) or what you want to do to him in detail. (ie: i want you inside my hot, wet center. Hard and strong, i want you to thrust yourself inside me.). Make sure to make him feel he is larger than he is, and harder than he is. dont be too obvious that you are doing this, just a few comments here or there to go with the flow. you can also say things like "you start slow" or "you are there, giving me all you got and i am taking it with ___..." you can also say things like "i want to lick every part of your body up and down" just go with it and if he adds something you dont like pretend you do like it or he said something you do like. You will do well with practice and research.

Ask him, what kind of talks he wants, if you were my gf, I dont care, I dont love talk during sex, but I do love when my gf mourn.

u should find out just how dirty he wants it, some guys want just an ego boost, telling them how it good it feels, how hot he gets you, and telling him what you're doing to him while u do it and some guys like it filthy dirty...that can be more difficult, buy a book, watch some porns or ask him for an example. one example for oral...i want your c*ck to hit the back of my throat, let me taste your pre-cum, sucking you gets me soaking wet, i wanna c*m on your face...for intercourse...if i get too loud you can gag me with my wet panties, ram your c*ck in my tight wet p*ssy...those are just a few ideas for the dirtier stuff

sometimes i talk dirty to my spouse and we have been together for 15 years sometimes a little pillow talk is a good thing you will be very surprised how turned on he can get.

when your getting him off tell him something like you like it when i milk that cock clean for ya, or sometimes something as simple as your cock blows me away,or if he likes it when u take conrol be like a mistress and have fun.

Do it for a little while this is just a faze.. He will change just like you will change.. Good Luck

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