You catch your young son/daughter having sex, what have you done/would you do?
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ANSWERS: 19
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thank goodness i never have to worry about this one... no kids, no kids having sex.....
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Off with his manhood!
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Challenge her partner to a duel, triumphantly slay him/her, and lock my daughter up in a tower guarded by a dragon.
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If my child was over the age of consent then it'd be none of my business, and I'd probably apologise for walking in on them. Unless they were doing it in my room or something, in which case I'd ask them to take it elsewhere next time. If my child was under 16 then I'd probably have several discussions with them about it, and try to figure out a compromise whereby they could have a relationship with someone without sleeping with them. I'd try my best not to shout, appear angry or disappointed etc, because that'd likely make the situation much worse.
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I would make sure my son and his girl were using protection then I would excuse myself and let them continue if they were. My son is going to be 20 in less than 3 weeks so not much I can do to stop him.
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By the time that my son is old enough to have sex he would have been very well informed about the practice of save sex by me as his father. I can’t watch him 24/7 but I can educate him, so I will note make a scene at all, I trust my son and I will support him, just as long as he is not paying to have sex I am fine with it. If he is doing it in my car it is a different story, but you know, I was young too, you know how it goes, what goes in must come out, just be responsible, if it itches, scratch it. On am more serious note, educate your children about save sex, that is the least we as parents can do!
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I'm thinking if I walked in on it, I'd clear my throat and let them know they need to get dressed and everyone's going to talk. Then I'd make sure that they were using protection and talk to them about possible outcomes and negative outcomes, and make sure they know what they're getting into. I always saw myself as an open person when it comes down to touchy subjects...I don't think I'd be THAT different when dealing w/my kid....
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Wow...thats an uncomfortable situation... I would probably inform them that incest is wrong...they need to start looking OUTSIDE the family for sexual partners. I would tell them that it's ok to love each other...but not to LOVE eachother...
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I'd be too shocked to react.
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the same as my father did when he walked in on me and my GF when I was a teen . excuse myself and back out of the room. ( I think he was as embarased as I was )
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i would be okay with it, its no big deal if you ask me...unless he/she is less than 13.
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I would teach them correct principles and let them govern themselves, but in this situation, I would probably move to another city. I would also wonder what I had done wrong as a parent.
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Well, hypothetically, it would depend on who it's with and how old they are. When I was... 16? 17? My mother opened the door in the morning to find me making out with my girlfriend, she slammed the door back shut and knocked about 15 seconds later. I think, if they were of an age I was alright with, and with a person I was okay with, that'd be my reaction.
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Evaluate the situation depending on the age, and maturity of them. Then depend on what happens. I wouldn't punish him/her however, Sexuality is something that is quite natural. I was having sex when I wasn't supposed to, so who the hell am I to think I can stop my child from doing it? As long as safe sex is being practiced than I really can't do anything but make sure a condom is involved and be prepared to beat the shit out of the guy if I find that he's taking advantage of my daughter.
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if he or she is over 18...nothing
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I don't have young kids any longer. They are married and have kids of their own. If I did however I would smile and excuse myself if they saw me. When they came out of their room I would assure them they were in no trouble; that I was not angry at either of them at all. I would be happy in the fact they were in their room where they would be safe. In many areas the back seat is just too dangerous today and even cheap motels are dangerous. Their room is a safe place. Once anyone starts having sex it seldom ever stops so just be sure they are safe and use safe sex practices. Assure them you are fine with it and are welcome any time to use their room...even if over night once in awhile.
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That's one of the most difficult situations to handle in a family situation. Although we're childless, two of our friends have confided this happened in their family. Another couple's neighbors learned their son and daughter had been having sex for at least three years. Two of the above couples sought out a counselor who has maintained the family's confidentiality, and each of the siblings terminated the sexual relationship during the course of counseling. The third family was able to sort it out without a third party. All told me that they were able to control their tempers and talked calmly with the children about this. Fortunately, none of these incidents resulted in pregnancy. As far as we know, no mental problems developed from this. Neither of us are professionals in any related field, so we do not feel qualified to give advice. But following these revelations, we now assume this isn't unusual, although I hadn't previously known of incestual relatonships.
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I'd have to say that any child of mine would know better to be having sex in my home without benefit of wedlock ... OR at least being Emotionallly AND Financially able to support and deal with having a FAMILY ... So many times , these days ; kida are not aware of the financial responsability of bringing a child into this world .. The fail to realize that there is pre natal and post natal care ... There is the mothers stay in the hospital and the actual birth ... Then; WHERE do they plan to live ? How are the bills going to be PAID .. baby food, diapers, baby furniture, vitamins for mother and child, etc ... I've talked to FIVE teenagers 15 - 17 (male) about this and guess what ... EACH one said if the girl got pregnant ; there was always ABORTION ! I was just plain SICK to think of using abortion as birth control ! Anyway; IF I EVER caught a child of mine, under 18; They'd better give their soul to God ;as their ass would be mine ....
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I'd kick the living shit out of the boy who was with my daughter, and let my wife do the talking to my daughter.... as for my son..... I'd tell him he better be using a condom, and let him finish, then I'd have a good long talk with him later about the dangers of sex.
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