If you love it let it go, if it never comes back, it was never meant to be..True?
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anonymous
ANSWERS: 14
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I don't think so. If we let everything go that we loved, then we would end up with nothing.
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Just because something is impermanent and ends and doesnt return it does not mean it wasnt meant to be. From a Buddhist point of view, all things are inherently impermanent, and something ending or going away can remind us of this fundamental truth, and so it can be argued those things that come, and then leave us are meant to be, so as to teach us the truth of impermanence.
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1) If you encounter always new obstacles trying to achieve some goal - much more than by some other goal - this could mean that it does not have to be and that you should rather give it up. 2) On the other hand, some of your goals could just be difficult, but not impossible to reach, and would be worth your efforts. You could ask yourself why you don't get why you want. Maybe you can find the reason and a solution. 3) "Letting go, isn't literal. But I think people always see it like that. It's not if you love the person, let her go off and kiss and bonk any Mat, Beng or Ali... then she'll come back if she loves you. Ugh. No. Used goods, man. I think it's about letting yourself free and immersing yourself into the love of the relationship. The giving unconditionally. Not holding on too tightly, too protectively like it belongs to you or that it's a property. No, let them go, let them decide. You just give. If they return in kind and respond unconditionally, it was meant to be. I'm learning that now. Even with every unrequited offering of love or emotion tried." Source: http://www.midnitelily.com/archives/2005/11/
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It depends on what your letting go. If it's a love one, they won't go simply because you let them go. They'll try to get you back which goes with that saying. You could let go of a habit and if you try hard it might come back even if it's a good habit. It really depends...I don't believe this adage anyways.
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"Let it go and set it free, if it comes back (he or she), it is meant to be. I believe it the saying is true. If you really love someone and you aren't sure if that person isn't feeling the same way, let him or her go and see if he or she really loves you, he or she will return and come back to you. Sometimes you have to make sacrifices in relationships. I had to do that in a recent break up. It hurt when he did not come back and return the same feelings.
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I don't believe so. There's a lot of circumstances that could occur to stop it from coming back.
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I think it goes "if you love it let it go, it it never comes back hunt it down and kill it!"
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If i knew that was true I would be trying it now :(....
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True
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try doing that with a Hundred Dollar Bill and get back to me with your findings.
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I got a temper, and I own a gun. If it doesn't come back, I'm going after it!!! (lol)
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True. Do me a favor and tell this to my girlfriend. Rest assured, I'll come back.
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I guess.. what if it comes back and you have to llet it go again?
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Sometimes .. but not always ♥
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