Ok hun this is the thing... Some ppl feel its ok to have sex with other people as long as you come home at night, others feel this is cheating and disloyal you are going to have to talk to her about her thoughts on the matter because things like this are on an individual basis. As for wanting to be with her friend try to pick some1 else because that will put a toll ont only on YOUR relationship with your "love" but also on their friendship so go and talk to her about sleeping with others but NOT her friend thats too wrong. and saying "should i pressure my woman" makes you sound like a low down, no good, dog and NO1 like that and if u treat her the way you talk about her you need to have your ass whipped!!!

Proceed with caution. Don't jusk ask out of the blue "Honey would you mind if I slept with another woman/your hot friend?" Maybe start off with a generic sexual topic, ask her first if she'd ever consider being with another woman, etc etc. However I don't know if it would be wise to ask to sleep with her friend. It depends on the woman.

Are you serious? If you "love" your woman it means (to me at least) that you put her needs before your needs. You needing to sleep with somebody is pretty selfish and the opposite of love. Isn't it? The fact you want to pressure her to talk for you just makes it worse! The phrase "should I pressure my woman" doesn't sound anything like love at all.

This is a case of "Don't ask, Don't tell." Just be discreet, and her friend is not be the best choice. Also, don't try to tell yourself that you want to be faithful. You don't. But, that's OK as long as you keep it to yourself and don't go blabbing, bragging about it. Be discreet.

yes
go 4 it

Dont do her friend, thats just stupid,
just pay for it and dont tell her, gheesh!