Can I make myself fall in love with somebody?
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ANSWERS: 7
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No. why would you want to make yourself fall in love with somebody? the world is loaded with people of all sizes, colors, and descriptions. falling in love is mother natures recipe for the human race. when you least expect it, mr. or miss right will come along. has not failed us, yet..
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I believe you can, if there is any degree of love within you. You can choose to focus not on outward actions the person does you disapprove of, but instead of the pain/sorrow/guilt/fear inside of them. You can choose to see the person inside and to focus on the loving aspects of their nature. You can repeatedly choose to do this and to act in their best interests, even if they don't care at all about you. There are many cases of selfless love shown for those utterly undeserving of it, those who are seemingly "unloveable." I believe that a person with God's love in them is not only capable of loving anyone, but indeed is called to do so, even their enemies.
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its up to your heart. you cant controll your heart. no one can. and when it does something that ou dont like, theres nothing that you can do to stop it, or punish it. a heart doesnt always do what the mind tells it to, and it has a mind of its own.
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No i don't think you can... because you can't control your heart... your heart is controled by the one who you will be in love with...
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No, you can only allow it.
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no its something uncontrollable.
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Love comes naturally you cant make yourslef fall in love. There should be a chemistry.
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