How can you move on from a relationship you know will never be restored but you still love the person with all your heart?
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Jes Baby
ANSWERS: 8
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I truly don't know Jes - just have faith and believe it will somehow work out okay in the end. My partner and i broke up for 18 months and during that time we never saw each other or said a word to each other. Then one night he knocked on the door and we've been together ever since. Don't give up hope xoxox
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It's hard, you have to give yourself time to heal. Some people don't understand that you still love someone you are no longer with so you have to just be patient and believe that one day the hurt will ease and you will be ready to move on in your life. I know how you feel, my huband of over 20 years left me and 5 years on I still love him but I have made a new life for myself. I wish you all the luck in the world. Take care.
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time healed all wound, just make yourself busy and divert your attention to others.
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Sometime's it takes a long time for the pain to go away. But if you concentrate on other things, try to meet some new people, eventually things will go much better i promise. It took me a good 3-4 months to get over my relationship. Good luck!
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For me, I had to learn to seperate the love from the relationship. Love is an emotional state and a mental codification. You can mentally assign "love" to your knowledge/perception of a person. It is an evaluation that we make. A relationship is an active force. It takes regular maintainence - for most intimate relationships, it requires daily maintenance. It is making a concerted effort to include that persons thoughts, desires, and opinions in to your decision making. On a more removed level (less intimate), it at least requires some regular effort - weekly, monthly, yearly contact. Conversation. Interaction. I doubt that my relationship with my father will ever be restored (by my choice), but I still love him greatly. Where there is real love; neither time, nor distance, nor circumstance can erase it. You just have to learn to live each day without the relationship. Move on in your own daily conduct, in your actions and in your decision making. You don't have to let go of "love" to do that. You just have to *choose* to move on in your living.
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It's not easy to do so. It takes time and patience and remionding yourself as often as you can that as much as you love that person the relationship you once had can no longer be.Just get out there and try to live life to the fullest and put the past behind you. Putting the past behind you doen't have to mean forgetting that person altogether. Some people leave such a lasting impression on our hearts and lives that we just can't ever forget them completely. They will always hold a special place in our heart even when we finally do move on. I am in the process of realizing that now and trying to get over the loss of my sweetheart almost 3 years ago. I now Know that if I were the one who went off to the next life and left her behind I would not want her to be living her life in the past and crying her eyes out for me all the time. And I an sure she feels the same.
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How do you get over some body you dacided to end a relationship with then after the break up you discover that you still love that person and you feel so bad. You have tried to apologised but he won't take it. He is now reminding you of past mistakes you have done wrong before thus he is saying no, to working it out. He is okay with you calling him greet him but not coming back to you for relationship.He has started drinking alot and over working himself. How do i get him back to me.If that won't work how do i move on.
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Its like the death of the relationship and what you do is you go into very real mourning and you honour your grief, otherwise you will find yourself stuck in denial.
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