My girlfriend and I were virgins until 3 weeks ago. I have been finding it difficult to enter her vagina even though I'm average size and we use lubrication. When I do enter she says that it hurts or she feels pressure. What can we do differently?
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It'll take time before she can actually enjoy it, because the little pain or pressure would probably last until she gets use to it. My advice would be to talk during sex, this keeps your mind off the pain or discomfort.
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Has your girlfriend been to a gynocologist yet? Sex may hurt for the very first time due to a virgin woman's hymen, but after the first time, it shouldn't hurt with good lubrication. I am quite curious as to what you mean when you say she feels pressure. This could be a sign of a serious medical condition, such as fibroids or endometriosis. I highly reccomend that your girlfriend see a gynocologist and speak to her doctor about it. Plus, all women should see a gynocologist once they start having sex. It is always better to be safe then sorry later.
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What I think the problem here is.... To put this as lightly as possible.... you need to warm her up...... When a women is ready she expands inside to let you in. And when she's not relaxed enough she tenses up and it hurts. She's feeling pressure because it's her muscles inside clenching down(basically saying "no entry") and that is why you guys are using lube. What I suggest you do, before seeing a doc... Is touch her all over... for at least 30 minutes.... get her relaxed..... and reassure her that you're not going to hurt her, even if she knows you won't... As someone else said, talk to her...... Tell her how much is in and how much to go ...and I can't stress this enough.... GOOO VERY SLOW literally centimeter by cm...... If she wants you to go faster she'll tell you..... Hope this helps
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1. As krissykris says practice some massaging and 'finger' foreplay before putting it in. Make sure your hands are clean. 2. Lie on your back and let her straddle you (like a cowboy does to a horse), or squat over you, so she can control the penetration and the pace. 3. Be sensitive to her muscular tension and breathing while you're inserting your penis. When you feel her tense up or hold her breath, take out your penis, lubricate it again, and then insert again slowly. This will give her more time to relax, plus the extra lube will help. 4. If you put the initial effort into the beginining of sex, the last 90% will be a breeze.
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She will get use to it. Over time the female vagina expands. Forplay helps though to relax muscles.
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You all need to warm up. Try mutual masturbation or oral se first and see does that change anything.
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