Why do men only think about sex all day?
Every guy I've ever talked to only wanted to talk about sex with me. No, I do not dress like a hooker or anything. But they've even said guys like about sex every 2 seconds of the day.
Is that seriously true?
by 
Jasumi
ANSWERS: 17
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It's not true, but men are very visual creatures and the younger men (under 25) have not learned to control where their visual impulses lead. You may not dress like a hooker, but that is not needed. A glimpse of what you're trying to cover or whatever else is the guy's personal turn-on is enough to derail the conversation to sex topics. For example, if he sees a bit of cleavage and is particularly attracted to breasts, that glimpse is like a shock to the system. It bypasses whatever controls he may have (and not learned to manage) and activates the pleasure center of his brain. Having had that little jolt, he WILL seek to get it again. It may start as trying to look down your top again or he may crudely try to go for the gold medal and start talking sex in the mistaken belief that it will excite you (after all, talking about sex gets HIM excited, gets his male buddies excited...it MUST get woman excited!).
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what men think about and what they talk about can be two very different things. if you find that the men you talk to only talk about sex...well, maybe its time to start choosing different men to talk to.
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I am one that does not think about it all the time. I was in a very loving and caring relationship for 2 years with a very beautiful and sexy woman who happened to be a very devout christian and did not believe in doing anything sexual before marriage. The furtherst I ever got with her was holding hands and kissing. Some men are able to control themselves when they have someone who they genuinely and truly love. Is it easy? no it isn't but when you are inlove with someone like that you respect their beliefs and have self control. No I never had someone on the side for sex either. Have I on occasion looked at porn and took matters into my own hands so to speak I won't lie I have done it on average 2 or 3 times a month but in general I was able to control myself for her sake.
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No. Not at all. These types of statements debase us and are purposefully perpetrated in order to further reduce our roles as contributors to society.
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Nope!
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Not for me, but I like to think about it for a reasonable amount of time throughout each day. There is more to life than sex, but life without sex, in my opinion is not really all that cool.
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I do.
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I havent found a guy yet that will not talk about sex first when it comes to get to know someone and i like sex but i want a man to get to know me my likes and dislikes and i would like to get to know him before the sex talk. i am a young 59 year old and dont look my age. dont men want to get to know women
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The have, nothing better to do whither live and it's make them feel like a man
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There are many women who only think about sex and I am one of them!I and many wimen think about sex every 2 seconds.It is not a gender thing. Trust me when you reach a certain age you will think about sex alot. AND WOMEN ARE VISUAL CREATURES TOO![this is for the guys here who think only they are visual].
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I don't know about every 2 seconds, but men do think about it quite often during the day, much more than women do. Your question appears to be the proof. Obviously you do not think about sex as much as men.
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Hey! There are just as many women who think about sex all the time! I'm one of them. It is not a gender thing.
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Well there are actually different types of guys, guys that want sex and will do whatever to get it, guys that would like sex but also want a relationship, and guys that are scared to have sex so they stick to relationships, i'm the kind that wouldn't mind sex but only because I'm really good in relationships... all my girlfriends say I'm different from other guys and actually understand them, your just with the wrong guys that's all...
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This question is so cliche that it makes me want to cry. People in general think about sex A LOT. Sex is the reason we exist. It is a vital part of all life: plant, animal, and human. There is nothing wrong with sex! Men think about sex a lot but so do women. Men may think about it more but I would have a hard time believing any woman who says they don't think about sex at least a couple or three times a day.
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Certainly NOT!!!! Hmpf!!! It's more like EVERY second of the day!!!
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Yeah, that is pretty much true. :) Its built into our genetic material --- it isn't our fault!
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While they do think about sex often, there are time they don't like when they have a deadline at work to meet, their time for evaluation comes up, when arguing, when watching some non sexual explicit movies. It is something that most man are born with, i nnated; however, I am not a psychologist.
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