I'm a guy who enjoys performing anal sex on males, as well as females. Does that mean I'm gay?

No, that doesn't make you gay at all. It makes you BI-SEXUAL.

Bi-sexual is when you are happy to have sex with either sex, male or female. Some say it is the best of both worlds, other people say it is wrong. I say who cares! Do what turns you on, do it safely, do it respectfully, and have fun and enjoy the experiences.

Yes, you are gay. But does it matter? And why does this question have a -6 rating?

It sounds to me like you are bisexual. Either that, or you just love anal sex.

I don't believe it means your gay or bisexual. To be Gay or bisexual you can't just be attacted to the sexual act of being with the same sex. It goes much further beyond that.

you are bisexual my friend, enjoy

you are bi.

It means ur bi. Like me :)

No. It means you have a hard on and are willing to share your pleasure with someone else. Yes you are bi.
Best of both worlds?

Bi sexual my friend. And there is nothing wrong with wanting to preform on the ass, as long as its done safely

It may mean you are Bi-sexual. the best thing to do is experiment untill you know for sure!

It all depends do you love the females, or do you love the males. Or do you love giving anal sex? Me i love females, I love receiving anal sex, but I don't love males. When i am having sex and a male is pounding my ass, i go into fantasy mood and picture that i am a female or a transgender female (ie-Kimber James). I prefer to have sex with female or tgirls over hunting soully males. And hopefully the males are shaving or little body hair too.

No, not necessarily. All it really means is that you enjoy anal sex. If you are attracted to the men and not the women (ie. you only have sex with the women because no men are available) then probably you're gay. If vice versa, then you should probably consider yourself heterosexual- and in both cases you really need to consider whether its a good idea to be using people in that way.
I suspect its likely that you are bisexual to a greater or lesser degree, but with the little info I have to go on here, I'm not sure I can really be much help on that score. The truth is that sexuality really isn't a clear cut black and white issue. There is no set of boxes that you can tick which will identify you as being gay, straight or bisexual, there are many straight people who have had sexual experiences with people of the same sex but would never in a million years consider themselves gay (After all, is the schoolgirl who practises kissing with her friend a lesbian, or even bisexual, ten years later when she's happily married to a man?), and I know several gay men who's earlier sexual experiences were with women before they really "found" themselves- they still describe themselves as gay, as opposed to bisexual, as the term gay better represents their feelings. Its something you have to discern and figure out for yourself by exploring your own feelings for men, women and about yourself. Ultimately you yourself are the only one who can tell you whether you are gay or not.

it means your bisexual man its okay nobody really cares about that anymore now a days

From a sexual only perspective you are bisexual. From an attachment perspective we do not hav enough information to judge.

that is so hot

Just having anal sex doesn't make you gay, but since you are sexually interested in males and females that does mean that you are bisexual.

Whether that means you are "gay" or not depends on who you ask. There are differences between the words "gay", "lesbian", and "bisexual"; "gay" refers specifically to homosexual males (in its narrowest sense), "lesbian" to homosexual females, and "bisexual" to people of either sex that are sexually interested in people of both sexes. However, the term "gay" is also used many times in a general sense to refer to all three groups of people. Thus, a person who is bisexual, will often just be referred to as "gay."

I have had my first topping of a guy. I met this guy and I let me top me first. I was so hot I topped him. In my opinion this makes you BI. I still have sex with women but guy sex is different obviously. Enjoy yourself and be safe!

engaging in sexual activities with the same sex is gay

your BISEXUAL fggt!

yes in my opinion if you like man butt and lady butt you are bisexual.

well to tell you the truth you might be gay or you could simply be bisexual in either case first off you should always wear a condom no matter what gender your partner is, and second you dont mention wether your in serious relationship with a girl or not, if you are then you are putting her sexual health and yours at risk by being promiscious with other men without her knowledge. its also a betrayal of trust in a relationship which can be a deal breaker for some women and plus if you have a steady partner of either sex they should be aware that they are not the only one having sex with you because its not fair nor honest to keep info like that from your main squeeze. think about what if you catch something you could unknowingly pass it to your partner so please be careful when your intimate with multiple partners, in fact i think as asuggestion you should consider the idea of being with one partner to lower your risk of catching any sexually transmitted diseases.

I enjoy pounding my cock up another guy's ass and most of the time the big turn on is that my wife is there watching and urging me on. I do not kiss another guy. I have never looked at a guy and felt that I wanted to fuck him or have him fuck me (except for Jamie Bamber who plays Captain Lee Adama on Battlestar Gallactica).

i think it makes you bi

Bisexual... nothing to flip out over. A lot of people are bisexual. All animals are bisexual. Humans, to me are animals.

I'd lean more toward bi than gay.

You my dear are Bi-sexual. Nothing to loose your head over. Most people now are though most choose not to admit it.

Its just a label. Being "Gay", "Straight", "Bi" or whatever doesnt exist. They are titles created by people so we can catagorize each other.

Do what you want, only feelings are real.

Not at all... you might be bi-sexual though... or you just enjoy having your cock in an ass...

Since you are a male who enjoys performing anal sex on both males and females
you are bisexual becauise gay men only perform anal sex on other males not females.
if you have anal sex with a woman while you are performing fellatio on another man
you are bisexual not gay because a gay men would only have anal sex with another man
while he is performing fellatio on another man, if you have sexual intercourse with a woman
while you are performing fellatio on another man you are not gay you are bisexual.
If you have a man and a woman take turns performing fellatio on you then you are bisexual
not gay because a gay man would not allow a man and a woman take turns performing
fellatio on him he would only allow two men take turns performing fellatio on him.
Male bisexuality is not similar to male homosexuality because while a bisexual man is
performing fellatio on another man he is having sexual intercouse with a woman.

Do you only do anal on the girls, or do you do them vaginally, too?

If you only do anal on the females and enjoy doing anal on guys, it may mean you just enjoy anal sex.

Do the males and females ever do anal on you, or are you always the giver of it?

I think if you only like anal sex and not vaginal sex, you're probably gay... And if you like taking anal up your own ass, you're probably gay...

If you love a woman's entire body (breasts, pussy, butt), then you're probably bi.

But you're seemingly so anal focused, I'm thinking you're gay.

I have a similar issue. I am really into women and have serious relationships with them. But I started with public nudity which then lead to going to nude beaches. Before long I ended up masturbating with men at these places. Over time I have just gone little steps further. Now ten years later I have been the receiver of anal sex. The main issue is I really loved the anal sex and I have now had anal orgasims. I really want to continue but I know it is wrong. I don't think I am gay I am just perverted. Many years ago I would have not thought I would have anal sex with a man but I have now.

Lets just say if you are looking for love in all the wrong places chances are you are gay with a penchant for female butt sometimes.

to: "rawr.760" You may be an animal but im not...there is a difference between animals and mamels...eighter way.... an assehole is an asshole...no difference other than the fact that one is on a man and the other is on a woman...the question is not if you are gay just cause you wanna fuck an asshole..but if you are gay cause you wanna fuck a guy. cant you just fuck girls and be hapy? or do you have to fuck your buddy to be satisfied...think about it..eighter way both are assholes. bottom line:if you have to fuck your buddy to be satisfied...you are bi (semi-gay)

Not necessarily...it means you just never learned to give up the pacifier when you were a child.

to be gay you need to be attracted to men and not just during sex but all around most people would say that you are bi but not I I have been contiplating it for a while because my wife wants me to but that wont mean I am gay it is just bedroom fun so feel free to explore

I'd say you have some tendancies.....so is that a bad thing?

That DOES NOT mean you are gay. It does not mean you even have to be bi. Don't ever let someone say you are. You choose who you have sex with and how you do. You choose what you label yourself as too.

But for a straight answer, you can call yourself bi or questioning meaning you haven't made a decision on what you'd like to be called. Or you could just not label yourself at all! That's what I do!

It means whatever you think it means.

It means your bi.

You are Bi.

no i think it makes u bi send me an emale and maby we can try caseykincaid21@yahoo.com

What?

You fuck guys and dunno if gay?

You are more than gay, you are an ignorant gay.