ANSWERS: 3
  • Yes it is, you need trust within a relationship or that relationship will not work.
  • Nope nothing wrong with that...have him check u'r phone and wallet also so you woulnd't feel as guilty.
  • We ALL know technically it's 'wrong' but cheating is much much worse as you know and you are only protecting yourself. But here is the truth about what might happen. You go through his things and find nothing, then become bored as you realize there is nothing to find and you can trust him. OR You go through his stuff and find something but it COULD be nothing and you end up questioning him and have him find out what you have done. Then he stops trusting you. OR You go though his stuff and find something that could be nothing and you say nothing. This eats you up inside and you keep on snooping until you get obsessed turning you into a crazy lunatic. OR You go with your intuition and you find something, unquestionable, and your heart breaks again. At the end of the day you are only human and so is he. Go with your gut feeling and do what you need to do to move on. It's hard to trust again and you are acting out of insecurity. Hopefully you will grow stronger and no longer feel the need to do this, maybe with some help? Deciding to be in a relationship means putting your heart at risk, maybe your not ready?

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