I am one of those women who can not orgasm. Not even with a Very giving partner we have tried everything and it seems I get to that point and then *poof* its gone. I am a 30 year old mother of three on my way through a Divorce and very sexually active wit
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Have you heard of the Sibian. It was invented by a guy whose wife could not orgasm. It is kind of a vibrating saddle horse. They aren't cheap, but how can you put a price on happiness, having an orgasm is a human right.
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I would like to help you with my experence . buy a toy call the silver bullet . you can touch your clortis dont rub just relax use the viburation it takes about 15 minutes. lay on you stomach with the toy on your clortus. dont be inpayient just relax the viburation will do the rest . I promise it works Greg
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Orgasm is not just a product of physical movements. You have to be emotionally ready for it as well. I've had girlfriends who complain about not having orgasms, but I hear that women who put too much emphasis on trying to have orgasms aren't able to really enjoy the experience of sex. Relax your mind. Don't stress yourself out about having an orgasm. Enjoy the moment and let it happen.
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Relax, have a drink, or a special smoke. Relax, have another drink. Not too many drinks--two is probably enough. Maybe one. Let BF, or hubby, massage your back. Then taking it slow and easy, go to the arms, the fingers, massage the legs from the ankle up. Use a vibrator; be gentle. Relax in a hot bath, come out clean, skin oiled. Try any or all of these relaxing procedures. Have fun, smaile, rest, take it easy.
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Could you finish your question by using an answer box?
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You were not meant to have an orgaism. Don't worry so much about sex. Go to church and get with God. You will be better for it.
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rest of question: very sexually active with my partner and we enjoy the sex VERY much however he is frustrated that he is not doing something right. we have lterally tried everything from positioning to toys to baths to a few drinks. how do I help to reassure him that even though I am not having an orgasm that I am still being satisfied in other ways? there I finished my question:someria
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You are trying much topo hard. It has become a task to be completed, rather than an activity to enjoy. 3 questions: Are you now, or have you ever been on anti-depressant medication? That will effect your ability to orgasm for a LONG time after you stop taking them. Have you had your hormone levels checked? May be a little out of kilter...simple blood test would determine if so...talk to your doctor. Can you orgasm when you do it yourself? If not, see questions 1 and 2, if yes, it's emotional. You've heard of women who just cannot seem to conceive? Then they adopt...and poof! Pregnant. Same thing. Good luck!
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Are you truly anorgasmic, or is that you can give yourself an orgasm—if only with a vibrator—but cannot have one with a partner?
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the questioner's question is completed below in one of the answer boxes. What she asks is how to re-assure her partner that it is okay with her, that she is satisfied without orgasm? I would answer that you should embrace him, tell him how much you love him, do something more for him, even after he has orgasmed. Just be loving. Eventually he'll get the idea.
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i wholeheartedly agree. You are putting way too much pressure on yourself and your partner... Relax... Sex is supposed to be something you enjoy slowly. (sometimes;-) ) Stop thinking of it as a goal for an orgasm. To orgasm you gotta learn to feel his penetration. Feel him rubbing against your vaginal walls. Sometimes with fast sex you miss finding where your g spot is located. Have fun exploring and trying to find your g spot. Once you have found it, you both have an idea of what positions and angles you need to do to reach that. I hope this helps...
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Someria, I can't really add to what the others have said. Relax and enjoy the sex; don't set orgasm as a goal. Don't even think about it, just love, and make love with, your man. There are varying degrees of orgasm, so if you "seem to get to that point," perhaps you have had a mild orgasm. I usually spend about 30 minutes in foreplay, just getting my lady ready, and often she has six or eight orgasms before I even enter her. She was non-orgasmic when we met, BTW.
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ok there are way too many complicated answers here and more argueing than helping. i honestly think that you are stressing too much about it or that you need to relax. i've only had two guys give me actual orgasms, my first boyfriend because he had a big dick and went down on me with his master tongue, and my current boyfriend who is just the most amazing guy and sex partner i've ever had. but between the two guys, i culdn't reach an orgasm either. i'd get to the top but no climax. and for years i though there was something wrong with me. but then i realized it was juts because i was thinking too much while having sex, and my bf doesn't understand how he makes me orgasm and the others didn't but al i know is that i wouldn't have it any other way because i would be so happy if he were the last man i ever have ex with
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dont try to hard relax and try to enjoy
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to the person who asked this question to begin with, have you had any luck achieveing ultimate bliss? all women are capable of reaching orgasm and from a young woman who only in the past year fully experienced a real orgasm, i sure hope you have luck :) and yes, she was asking about sex not religion
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Try Yoga. There are some yogic measures which can bring back your power to orgasm.
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i say smoke, roll, or drink first and then see what happens. if you still dont reach maybe you need to find a diffrent man.
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I can understand what you feel. I have never had an orgasm during sex. I can stimulate my clit with a toy called "a mini bullet" and that works for me. Usually I have to have a scenario in my head for it to work even then. My problem is that when i cum, my entire body tenses up and my legs have to be straight out and closed to cum, not easy during sex. So I have become accustomed to getting my guy off and taking care of myself later. A clitoral orgasm is better than none at all.
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