Would you have a problem with dating a man or woman who already had children if you didn't have any and wanted your own?
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mizuiislife
ANSWERS: 11
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It wouldn't bother me any because I have a kid myself. In fact, it would be a bonus for me because the person would have experience with kids and be at the same or similar point in the their lives as I am in mine.
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I am in that situation, i said to myself i wouldn't date a man with children but you cant choose what comes or who comes with them, i don't have a problem but its hard for me, especially when the ex wife makes it difficult, i dont have any children but his girls are great and seem to like me, i do find it a bit hard as i am desperate for a baby myself, but all in good time so i dont have a problem but i do find it hard sometimes.
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i hope people don't mind dating a person with a child because i have a child, and for somebody to date me, they have to accept that i'm a mom above all else.
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the only thing that would bother me is the ex. she could make it pretty difficult
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I guess it would depend on how old the children are. I never wanted kids and was extremely lucky to find a guy that didn't have or want any either since neither one of us are young.
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my auntie told me to find a man with a job, car, goals, house, and no kids. i found the 1 with a job, car, goals, and own house, but he has 2 kids by the same woman. i have had previous relationships with men who had kids and their baby's mother has stoke and flaten my tires. and they were all nice guys. now im trying this a 3rd time and this guy is so nice that i would beat his baby's mama a** if she even try to step.
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No - but if I didn't want any children I wouldn't pick someone with kids to date in the first place.
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If I didn't have any, and they didn't want any more, I would have a problem with that, yes.
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yes i would. i don't want to be the step mom.
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When I was dating, I would halt everything if the guy told me he had kids. I dated guy with kids for a while, and we agreed we would see how the relationship went before I met his children, and then he just dumped them on me (3!) one night. I was VERY upset with him. I didn't know where we were going, and I didn't want to bounce into their life, then possibly bounce out. Well, I ended up liking them more than him, and the relationship failed, and I had no right whatsoever to see them. It hurt everyone involved badly. I vowed never again.
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I would only seriously date a woman with children under the age of say.... 9... Unless she had teenage children that were properly disciplined and polite. Life's to short to inherit a punkass 15 year old with an attitiude just to be with his mother.
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