Did you ever experience something that wasn't so great but you thought you could let it roll off your shoulder, & then after you told someone, what you experienced started to make you feel bad in a sense? (& time passing is gonna b the partial healer)
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rachel. StarsInAPortraitIcecreamInTheSky
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This does happen to me. If I just remember something it doesn't bother me but if I speak out the memory it brings me back to the feelings.
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Quite often. I am one of those people that can't keep my feelings hidden and has to talk it out. I believe in open communication but sometimes I feel the other person takes it as blame, an accusation or criticism when I am just airing my views. I usually try not to sweat the small stuff but it tends to bother me anyway. After I've talked it out, I feel better but the other person looks beaten up. And then I feel worse.
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Ya, I did, I thought I could let it go but not many years later it's still there. I know I can't change this thing...I try almost daily to come to grips with it,or accept it, or forget it, or bury it............one day,
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