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  • just go up and start a conversation about anything. say you saw a movie last week and it was really good and he should see it if hes into that kind of movie. things move on from there. if you want and everything is going good, ask him for a cup of coffee or a beer, assuming your over 18, i know 21 is the new legal age but it used to be 18 so i dont care if youre over 18. enjoy life. why be afraid of the unknown. let it be known so you can move on from there. live, laugh, love
  • yeah, just go up to him and start up a conversation. music is always a good one. i normally get really nervous and blurt out the stupidest stuff, but with time it gets better so just slowly get to know him. if its meant to be its meant to be! just be natural.
  • Just be you'reself.Give him time.Walk up to him and yeah,everyone is right,start a conversation.
  • If he is so busy with his job, then ask him about his job but focus on what is about him that makes the job suitable for him then drift to more personal about him and what you two have in common.
  • wow, tons of bad advice. First off, he may be indifferent to you because he has noticed it is working and you are coming to him. Guys ALWAYS notice girls, they may just either hold back or not be interested "yet." I do agree with making conversation, but don't just walk up to him and say some goofy ice breaker. You'll most likely annoy him and pigeon hole yourself into "goofball not worth his time" Better approach is to observe his interactions with the people he gets along with. See if he has a sense of humor or interest that you can relate to and base your approach on that. Guys that are focused on what they are doing tend to need to observe things for themselves, so just put yourself in plain sight on a regular basis, but pay no mind to him. eventually he will notice you around and start to get curious. Be confident in your movements and know your a catch. Don't be afraid to exhibit a little sexiness AROUND him but not TOWARDS HIM, that is the kind of attitude that will attract a "busy" successful man. Also get to know his associates as well - but not too well. One no-no is to flirt with the friends of a guy you like, that may work on some girls, but has the opposite effect on guys.
  • im in the same posistion but its a girl. Where do you meet this guy at? try giving him the eyes and he'll wonder about coming over to make conversation, or go up to him and begin talking. Make him feel happy by showing interest in what he wears, or if he has any scents on let him knw they smell nice to get you started. I dunno, im no expert just trying to help.
  • If hes not noticed you in the way you want him to, his head may be too engrossed in what hes doing every day, and he may be too shy etc to think u are seriousy interested. Friendly approach to say youde like to know more about him is best ice breaker, from there you will find a minefield of info, to see if hes right for you, and vise versa. From older 42 year old guy

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