Do you think that a woman should postpone her wedding if she is pregnant and showing A LOT or go ahead and get married?
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snakelover
ANSWERS: 6
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Go ahead and get married. Why on earth not? In some communities it used to be the tradition that hey didn't get married until the woman was showing - that way you knew she was fertile. Having children is part of what married is about. My sister-in-law was about six months and looking even further when she married my brother.
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If it were me, I would postpone it. I wouldn't want all my guests thinking I was getting married because of the pregnancy...walking down the isle pregnant just screams "SHOTGUN!"
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If for no other reason than to save problems with the new childs paperwork (birth certificate, social security, etc.), go ahead and get married.
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I think it's beautiful to see a pregnant bride. After all, she is literally 'swelling' with her groom's love. This way, you can always tell your baby that they were a part of the ceremony!
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I say GO for it! It's no one else's bloody business what your reasons are for getting married, and anyone who thinks badly of her for getting married pregnant should review their sense of judgment.
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Before the baby finishes high school would be nice.
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