by slide920 on August 7th, 2007

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Im 19 yrs old & I've been trying to concieve for 4 yrs. I have had many tests and doctors say everything is "normal" the last 3 guys ive been with all have kids. Whats wrong with me??

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  • by Aidens Momma on August 10th, 2007

    Aidens Momma

    maybe it is the universe saving you the cost and everything else till you are truly ready for it

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  • by ThisRandomGuy on August 7th, 2007

    ThisRandomGuy

    Maybe this is a bit personal, but why are you trying to have a kid at such a young age?

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  • by P. W. Pasobrio loves Marines on August 10th, 2007

    P. W. Pasobrio loves Marines

    For starters what are doing trying to have a kid at 19? And the fact that you started this ill fated journy at 15 tells me the least of your worries should be in trying to have a child. And who are these guys? Kids before they're adults? Or are the adults that are preying on you? Where's your parents? What are doctors doing performing fertility test on a child? There's something very wrong with this picture. And it's not the fact you haven't gotten pregnant yet. In fact it's the only good thing I see about the whole situation. I can lay money you have gotten pregnant, but because your body wasn't ready physiclly to carry a child to term you miscarried in the first weeks. By the way this is common. I want you to understand that becoming pregnant at your age is not only unheathly mentaly for you and the baby it's down right dangerous. Maternal and infant mortality rates for girls your age are very high. And with good reason you're not done developing yet. You need to be worring baout why you have this drive when your not ready, not about why you haven't conceived.

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  • by staffie on August 10th, 2007

    staffie

    the average person takes 18 months to conceive. what tests have you had. sometimes its useful to have a little operation to look at your ovaries and fallopian tubes just to check everything out. if you have had this done and all the blood tests etc and everything is fine you may just have to be patient. i know how upsetting it can be but if everything is ok it WILL happen for you :0)

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  • by Sweet T on July 14th, 2008

    Sweet T

    You have being trying to get pregnant since fifteen. WHY? The timing as to be right, the moon has to be in a certain position, etc. Pregnancy will happen when it does, I see no reason worry about not being pregnant yet, I had unprotected sex with my husband for years and never got pregnant. Then out of the blue, whammy! Dont rush this, take time to live some of your life, before you have to give it up for this child.

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  • by dipsy on July 14th, 2008

    dipsy

    thats the kind of person u r. they make u happy, its normal. i have dated 26yrs old guy who had 2 kids for two years when i was 16. my parent loved him. we break up because i find out that he didnt want to spend time with his children but want to spend time with me. i mean, they r his children and he cant ignore them just for me. what would i feel if i was is child. i love children and its alway good to see a man taking care of his kids. so i break its off. its happens to many people and that's life. there is nothing wrong with you. u r perfect.

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